me and my boyfriend just broke up and i dont know how 2 keep him off of my mind i mean i really miss him but i know i cant talk 2 him anymore what can i do ? HELP
2006-11-26 18:56:31 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ tweety ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I JUST READ YOUR PROFILE. YOU HAD A QUESTION STATING THAT YOU ARE 14YRS OLD AND HE IS 17YRS OLD AND HE IS VERY CONTROLLING, YOU WERE CONTEMPLATING ON BREAKING IT OFF WITH HIM BECAUSE HE DID NOT HAVE RESPECT FOR YOU AND EVEN YOUR PARENTS! TWEETY, IT MAY SEEM BLEAK RIGHT NOW, BUT I THINK YOU KNOW DEEP DOWN INSIDE THAT IT IS BETTER FOR YOU TO BE FAR AWAY FROM HIM. IT MAY HELP TO THINK OF THE REASONS ON WHY HE USE TO MAKE YOU FEEL SO UPSET. THINKING OF SUCH THINGS WILL HELP YOU TO HEAL AND MOVE ON! PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH... YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY MAY BE ABLE TO HELP, BY JUST SPENDING TIME WITH THEM! PEACE!
2006-11-27 00:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Accept that you guys aren't together anymore. There's no quick fix to getting over someone. Rebounding rarely helps, as it just brings you back to where you started after that rebound. That or you miss your bf when you're on a rebound.
All you can do is, as I said earlier... Accept it. If it's meant to be, you're gonna have another chance with him. Accept the idea that it's hard to keep him off your mind.
I'm not saying it won't hurt. But it'll stop hurting so bad. Learn from any mistakes or shortcomings you've had in this relationship and move on. Let go. but don't forget. Just let go.
2006-11-27 03:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Manuel Perez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Moving on is all about yourself,it's a personal thing and you really have to decide what you want before you ask for help a relationship is about two people and only those two can decide what the way forward is,it's not easy but hang in there.
2006-11-27 03:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lobuchu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paty Party Party. Rebound is the answer! Just play, no sex. You can do nothing during the day, just time can heal and passions is the answer. I know how you feel and the first 2 weeks will be the hardest, but be strong. Good Luck.
2006-11-27 03:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wish i could answer that. i'm going through the same thing. all i can say is get out and do things with your girlfriends, try and keep your mind off it, even for an hour a day. i know it's hard though, believe me! good luck!
2006-11-27 03:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get busy
real busy
work out, study, shopping, crafts or a hobby
keep ur self busy and productive
this should keeep him off ur mind
good luck
2006-11-27 03:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by evildoodleeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
preoccupy yourself with school, work, art..whatever you do. just keep busy and soon you'll be over him. life goes on :) a new guy will come in no time
2006-11-27 02:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by risiblev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think too much on that topic and concentrate on other things in life. time will heal the wound.
2006-11-27 02:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, there are plenty of yummie guys in the sea!
2006-11-27 02:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it be
if he wants you he'll come crawling back
he's probably with some other chick right now !!
Go out with your girlfriends, and have a good time, the real "prince charming" will come along....
2006-11-27 03:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋