anybody got some advice on keeping a 3 year relationship fresh?

Question

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him very much but sometimes it feels like we just have nothing to say to eachother. any advice?

Answer 1

How about heating things up in the bedroom? Splurge on some sexy lingerie from Victoria's Secret and get a can of whip cream and strawberries and let the magic happen all over again!

Answer 2

You've got to keep it fresh, the same thing each and every day will make you want to strangle each other...do things together that neither one of you have done before-wait until he leaves home and change the bedroom around...light candles,satin sheets...call him and have him meet you at a hotel,and when he arrives,have a new attitude...or at least one he's never seen-you can't do these things everyday,but maybe a couple of times a month will help.

Answer 3

I'm in a four year relationship(going on 5) and we spiced it up by being more spontaneous, we go out in a snap when we want, we go out to different places, we do things different everytime, we break the routine. We also decided to take up different hobbies, I learned Belly Dancing, he learned Tae Kwon Do, and other martial arts stuff,...and everytime we meet we both have different things to say, do and show. Also, try being more adventurous in bed. No threesome or anything like that, but experiment...keep each other guessing.

Answer 4

That happens. Try new stuff together. Conversation will come from fun things you guys do together. Or sometimes a little time apart (I don't mean a lot) will make you miss eachother and will warm things up.

Answer 5

Yeah it happens sometimes. Dont worry start going deeper into each others likes and dislikes, professions and personal life. Then you will have lot to talk about. Till then to make your meetings interesting you can start reading aloud together some romantic novels. this will add a new taste to relation.

Answer 6

i am in a relationship of 5 years and i love it every single day. (probably bc its a long distance relationship)... but try to remember that love is not a game. its not here to entertain. its to enjoy each other's company. i feel like that sometimes, too, but you will get used to it. don't you think that when two persons sitting next to each other, even though they are not saying anything, it still feels so comfortable, and it just seems so perfect bc you are with someone you can just chill with and there is no awkward moment between you two. like grows to love. love grows to fondness. fondness grows to care. people who have been with one partner for decades do not "love" its not a passionate love, it grows to a care for each other.

try not seeing each other so often, and it will make you miss him more. talk about topics you haven't talked about before. politics, arts, etc. go out to places you haven't been to before. go to one of those craft place and make plates and vase and stuff.

good luck

Answer 7

Well...do other things...sometimes talking all the time may be a little too much. It sometimes happens to my husband and i and I usually go read a book or something. I just find other stuff to do.

Answer 8

just try to do new stuffs like...visiting a dream place ..planin 4 sky divivng..and what ever that thrills u both..it worked 4 me lets see how much it helps u both..

Answer 9

maybe you are just incompatible. at this point you should have been free with each ather such that one doesnt need to think of what to say to create a conversation

Answer 10

when is the last time you two experienced anything together other than sex,., it might be good but talking about the things u share is when u share.