If you have very good source of income at abroad and you are the only son and could earn in your home country decent enough but not able to save anything. You fear how would u cope if an unexpected huge expenditure come on you. But u dont want to leave ur parents alone, nor u can accomodate them overseas.
2006-11-26 18:10:06 · 20 answers · asked by Jimmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi Jimmy,
Go abroad for a couple of years. Earn lots of money and save it. Then come back and settle down in your home country. Go to the greener fields, harvest as much as you can and then come back and sow the seeds. Simple.
Don't worry. You love your parents and country and you will come back.
Good Luck & God Bless
2006-11-26 18:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer is YES and No if you bother about money and that is the only thing in your life then go abroad btw in abroad which ever country you go you are considered as second grade citizen and you are not welcome and there you dont have much freedom you need to be extra cautious on trivial issues and dont expect any respect for foreighners world is not like INDIA which loves foreighners and white skin in other countries they wish they could kick on ur *** how big position u occupy.
As far as staying in your country the problem is we say from our mouth that we proud of being india unfortunately we dont mean it how much money does one need to live who said to you u will save if go to forign country if you like and ape their life style whatever you earn is not enough stay with you parents and try to be happy and cherish your achievements even i was like u i was born in hyderabad did my school college and got decent job in hyderabad which was a great achievement i thought i need to move to learn i left my parents and went to other contry i dont know how much i saved what i realised that i am very lonely even in crowd most of the times you are hungry but skip the lunch becoz you dont like what is offered u prefer not to eat rather than eating junk it may be interseting for a week after that it will show its effect
last but not least neverever think or assume that by going to us/uk or other forein countries you are sucessfull that is fools method of evaluating if you want to taste sucess qwork hard in your country winners are never quitters and quitters cannot be winners and most of the people who left the country thought other countries or greener only to realise that ur home country cannot be replaced with anything
2006-11-26 23:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by cupiddear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with whatever you earn in your home country. There is no limit for desire. The more you earn, the more will be the desire. Is there a limit for ones desire. Can you tell how much money is too much? There is no end for this hunger. So better be happy with your parents and work little hard to make that extra money. This is my advice to you based on my own experience.
2006-11-27 01:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa. this is difficult however it sounds as if you are leaving out a bit of information. are you asking about whether you should take a job that pays well vs. staying near your parents to take care of them for not so good pay? well...how desperatly do your parents depend on you? do you care for them or will they be well off without you? Or...you can do whats best for you and your future because i am sure they would want you to go forward with your life and career. It seems that you only know the answer to this one...or need to add more details
2006-11-26 18:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jessy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult to decide. Money and parents, both are important. But if you have passion for doing your job and you want to be respected by the amount of work you do, then you should go abroad because in India your talent won't be recognized by others.
2006-11-27 05:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go abroad, earn as much as you can and save. Because it would doesn't make sense if you stay and have got just enough for your needs. Anyway, after earning if you have enough savings you can go back to your family and provide better living. They say if you want something you have t o sacrifice a thing. So, sacrifice this little thing anyway, it's for them and for a better future after all.
2006-11-26 18:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Maribelle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a huge decision that you really need to make for yourself not us making for you cause ultimately it's your life and you live your life for yourself.
i was more a less in your situation 2 years ago but although not exactly similar like i'm not the only son in the family. for me to make the decision to leave home (not only my parents, everything that i had - career, relationship, friends, house, car etc, etc) it was indeed a tough decision and it took me many years to come to the end decision. there's so much thing to weight at in details (what i really want in my life etc etc) and finally i did left home to settle in another new country. it has been very difficult for the first 6 months which i missed home badly although i've traveled much since i was young but the feelings are different. until today i've not regretted what i did to my life. it is us our own-self to make our life the best out of it not others.
2006-11-27 06:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should be definitely going abroad if u really want to... after a while when you settled down you can accommodate your parents too since you will have a good source of income. of course you have to convince your parents firstly for that... later when thats done your well -off to abroad
2006-11-27 01:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Home country with the parents.
2006-11-26 18:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to go abroad and send money. or u can take ur parents too and lead life. Staying there, u can accumlated ur amount here, and purchase some reliable properties. have good balance and u can come back and stay happy.
2006-11-26 18:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋