She is arranging a night tomorrow for her girlfriends to come around to watch me present my paycheck to her. I really love her but I overheard her telling her girlfriends about the "collaring ceremony", I think she might have been referring to our date. I am really scared that if I don't submit to her she has other guys that will. I already know of 2 that have offered her percentages of their paychecks. If mine is not enough I might still lose her. How much should I give? I love her so much and don't want to lose her.
2006-11-26 17:59:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't give that girl a penny. She is not your wife. If she is with you just for the money you can give her out of your paycheck, let that heifer go, you do not need her.
2006-11-26 19:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Matt, I would find out how much she wants, if she is really greedy and wants the whole check, just go ahead and end it with her right now as this is referred to as a "succubus." Do you have any idea how much she has in mind? I don't know your relationship, it may be a very good trade, pends on the woman or wo-girl in this case, and how she fills your needs, right? Hopefully you didn't tell her how much you're making, never tell a woman or a wo-girl that. But anyways, sounds like she is trying to take advantage of you, but, this is a good lesson for you - you have to learn how to watch out for yourself, women, like men, can be very cruel. Lastly, if she isn't intimate with you, don't give her money. This is a basic rule that no one talks about but pretty much everyone lives by. Best of luck man, sounds like a lot has changed since I was in high school back in 95.
2006-11-26 18:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by swollensalami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mat,
Are you kidding? It sounds like it's time to dump that b1tch! You don't need to have a girlfriend like that. Now that you're making some money, it sounds like it's time to upgrade your girlfriend.
You need to get some b@lls and find somebody new. Girls are all over the place and some of them will even treat you nice. Dump her and go hunting for them.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-11-26 18:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe this. You will either lose all your hard earned money or the girl. Sometimes in life things are hard to do and even painful.......and when you totally leave her alone and find a sweet young lady that will like you for you.........the pain will be worth it. Don't ever start anything that you can't keep up. What are you gonna teach your son or daughter about these situations later in life?
2006-11-26 18:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong bruh. be honest with me. how is your self esteem? no pun. my point is why put up with it. she has 2 mean who will do what you wont. so what!!! i'm pretty sure there may be 2 women who you know of who dont care how much you make. thats kind of messed up that she is going to put you on display. what for......so that she can show how she got you wrapped around her finger? how she says "jump", and you say "how high"? it doesnt matter how good she looks. dont play yourself like that. also, how happy will she really be with those 2 guys. yeah they may spend, but they could beat her, rape her(even if you're dating it can still be considered rape), etc.. sometimes when a person knows they have the upper hand, they use it to their advantage. for example, if i have something more valuable than 9 other guys, and that helps the girl pick me over the other 9 guys, i may just do whatever i want, because i know that she "NEEDS ME" and the other guys aint the s**t like me. its your call though. you can put up with it or you cant. if anything, its her loss.
my point is let her get with one those other guys. let them go broke. let her use them out of everything they own. you can find better. i can see if you were going to spend a percentage just because you wanted to. on some voluntary type stuff. like you wanted to go above and beyond to pamper her for that day. but that's not what it sounds like. you live and learn though.
2006-11-26 18:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by H W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude...unless you said you will be giving her money and you said this out of the goodness of your heart then don't give her anything. Unless you genuinely want to.
Rmember you're a man. Act like one.
You are no one's dog to be collared.
I think this night for her friends to watch a man submit to her is personally sick and I would not take it. Being a female I would also not take a man seriously who did this. She doesnt love you if she needs you to give her money to be with you. We have a nickname for females who are act liek that where I come from but I will refrain from saying it in this public space.
2006-11-26 18:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by eve16455 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTF! i don't get this. i am assuming you are still in middle school or early high. this is not the type you want. unless you are in it for sex (witch is not the way to go) tell her you don't feel confortable GIVING her a percent of your paycheck because that'll make it feel like you are paying for her as if she was a whore. becasue hey if you are paying to go out with her that is what she is... think about it. tell her that you'll still buy things for her occasionally. like dinner sometimes and a gift her and there. if she can't handle it tell her she can leave. just think how bad the future is going to be for you if you stay with her.
2006-11-26 18:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by theswarm666x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Get rid of her! She's obviously only after your money! Is that what you want?? Come on! AA ceremony to watch you give her YOUR hard earned cash?? I would never ask my man to give me any money. I ask him AND I pay him back if I do borrow any. Tell her to get a J - O - B and keep your money for YOU
2006-11-26 18:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Some Girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont give that gold digger nothing.She is not in a relationship for the right reasons.They are trying to make a fool of you.Find a nice girl that has her own money where the two of you can invest in your future together.The sooner you get wise to this girl,,the better.
2006-11-26 18:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she wearing leather and carry a whip! Dude you have the dominatrix queen there. Cash your check and put it in a safe place.
This chick will have you shining her boots with your tongue. And unless you plan to be submission boy and have her whipping your butt with a leather strap you need to get out of this relationship now.
Mark
Author GirlsTellAll
2006-11-26 18:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋