Heres the story(4weeks)...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her this past week...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evil?
2006-11-26 17:41:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are unstable and erratic. That's just how it is.
2006-11-26 17:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe when you made the move you scared her. Her b/f just broke up with her and you rushed in. (At least that is what it seems like happened to me, sorry if I am wrong). If this is what happened tell you are sorry if you have upset her. You want to remain friends like everything used to be. Ask her why she is acting different and if it is something you can work out. Be prepared for anything she answers. In other words, if it isn't the answer you wanted to hear you may want to be ready if this occurs. But do not try to change her mind right away. You could loose her for good. Find out what is going on. Try to get things back to normal and take it easy. Don't be in a hurry.
2006-11-27 01:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "evil" is going a little too far. You 2 have always enjoyed a rather flirty relationship, and I'm guessing she saw it as a harmless diversion. Now that she has broken up with her boyfriend and is officially back on the market, she may think that you'll suddenly lunge in for her, even though you said you're not going to do that. Since she just went through a breakup, she's probably not ready to date, and so is distancing herself from you to avoid a confrontation or awkward situation. Maybe you could somehow let her know that you're not going to take a flying leap at her pants quite yet.
2006-11-27 01:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by heehaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are saying, you don't know what shes thinking. Problem is she doesn't know what your thinking. You need to ask her out. She may like you and think you arent geting the message so she gave up and was too shy to ask you. I hope this helps!
2006-11-27 01:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and it sounds like she's trying to blow you off... ask her what the deal is just dont make it seem like it's a big deal to you. sometimes girls are justy afraid to say what they feel and need someone to ask them... she may front to you though and act like it's nothing just be easy and forget her if she don't wanna get with you or hang with you she's just a tease and a liar then
2006-11-27 01:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by heclee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We could all take guesses, but the only real way to know is to ask her.
I know you probably didn't want to hear that, because it's hard to do, but that's the truth.
2006-11-27 01:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably realised that she likes you and is just afraid/embarassed to tell you --- that's probably just me giving her the benefit of the doubt (whether she deserves it or not is another question)....dunno if you want to hear this but you're just gonna have to ask her what's going on
2006-11-27 01:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by lexie1488 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you want to talk to her... it seams like you and her a god friends so work through it... don't take no for an answer cause obviously something is affecting her
GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-27 01:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by hayley040 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her kid and move on
2006-11-27 01:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋