so i have been dating my girlfriend for a year now, and we want to make love. we have gone as far as oral sex, but a few months ago the was a loud knocking on the wall of my room in the apt, i'm unaware if it was a neighbor or my roommates but either way she is afraid of making too much noise. also we did try one time but it was difficult to get it in, any advice there?
2006-11-26 17:35:28 · 7 answers · asked by Chirs potick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she says she defiantly wont lose her virginity in car.
2006-11-26 17:43:13 · update #1
If she's never had sex before, of course it's going to be difficult to get in. Try these two tips:
1. Let her be on top, so that she can control the speed (and therefore the pain won't be as much.)
2. Give her a little nip on the shoulder just as you enter. The bite will distract her from the other pain.
If she's not a virgin but she's just naturally tight, though, there's not much to be done but practice, practice, practice. Have her do Kegels (stretching exercises).
2006-11-26 17:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by supensa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Chirs potick,
Yes, play the music in your room. You've got an apartment, so that should be enough.
As far as the act of sex, you are doing great by starting out with oral sex. It sounds like you are pleasing her enough if she's making some noise. Be sure to wear a condom and buy some lubricant to help getting it in. OK?
--Rick
2006-11-26 18:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the tunes up louder!! I always either had to play music or have the tv on when i lived at my boyfriends place.....this way you can be vocal and not have to worry.....
2006-11-26 17:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really do have to be quite, and trust me, its possible to quiet. play (not blast) music (or tv at a normal level). as far as hard to get it... lots of forplay, or if its too dry, buy lube. take ur time, dont be in a hurry, cuz that will cause her pain.
2006-11-26 17:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say be dangerous. maybe do it in a car lol.
if you have no options, and theres no privacy, best thing
to do is do it somewhere where it doesnt matter who hears you lol. like the mountains, somewhere secluded, in a car, etc. :) plus, it might make it more exciting
2006-11-26 17:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by shadow_princess2569 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blast music, tell her to just moan in your ear and have your ear by her face,get a room.
2006-11-26 17:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some booze, drink up, and bang the **** out of her
2006-11-26 17:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by backyardbilbo 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋