Im confused...Ive had a bunch of crushes on girls..But lately Ive been havin a lot of dreams of havin sex with guys... And those guys are my schoolmates!! HELP!!!
2006-11-26 17:27:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
They're just dreams. They don't mean anything.
Everyone has weird sexual dreams of things with the same sex - even straight people.
It's nothing to worry about.
2006-11-26 17:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay, and I cannot stand feminine gay men. And I'm REALLY not keen on cross-dressing gay men, but I don't hate them, it's just not my preference, - like how some straight men prefer curvy women, and other preferences etc.. You're gay, you can't change that. And however chiché it is; there's someone out there for you, probably with the same opinions even, it's not the first time I've come across a homophobic gay. Oh, and just for the record, I'm attracted to men. That doesn't mean I want to sleep with everyone good looking guy I see. #StayClassy.
2016-05-23 08:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are just that, DREAMS. You are not gay because you have them. There are probably several interpretations to what those dreams may mean such as maybe you subconsciously feel that you want more control of your life rather than being influenced by your peers. On the other hand, if you are having those dreams because you are attracted to them, it's ok!!! There is NOTHING wrong with that.
2006-11-27 03:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Yoyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're about 16?
Don't try to slap a label on yourself yet. This time in your life, nothing's set in stone. You're processing a lot of information about yourself and people around you, and dreams are one way that happens. It's completely okay to sort of have a crush on a guy; it doesn't mean you want to have sex or a relationship with him.
Just lay low about it so if you turn out straight -statistically most likely- you won't have a lot of confusing issues to sort out with your peers.
2006-11-26 17:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it all depends on age. Everyone, especially during puberty, fantasizes about the same sex.
I'm bisexual. I came out at age 13... but it's different for everyone. Some people are sure of their sexuality before that, and some aren't sure until long after.
2006-11-26 17:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I don't know what to tell ya. But if you start thinking about it when your talkin to some of your buds, you might be gay. I have never thought about another dude or even had a dream about one. So, I don't know ? But hopefully it was just a dream.
2006-11-26 17:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spirita explains your dreams
Visit http://spirita.blogspot.com/ and post your question as a comment. You'll get your FREE dream interpretation (as a comment, too) shortly. Just remember where you posted your question, your dream interpretation will be under the same section
2006-11-27 01:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by LIz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to act on these thoughts?
Do you find men attractive (when you are not sleeping)?
Maybe you should do some research online (because I don't know how you feel or think)....
Here are some sites to get you started:
http://www.avert.org/hsexu2.htm
http://www.avert.org/hsexu5.htm
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/feature/amigay.htm
http://www.bbc.co.uk/slink/sexlovelife/index.shtml?page=life&sub=amigay
Hope that helps a little!
Good Luck
2006-11-26 20:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kridwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams don't mean anything. If u have these urges during the day, then yeah, you're gay.
2006-11-26 17:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are on the process of being gay! If you are happy with it then stick to it but if won't, please do something to get rid of it.
2006-11-26 18:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋