because if you love them then you should be understanding right? you should question your relationship. so wut's the point of being jealous? and what does it represent?
2006-11-26 17:15:36 · 9 answers · asked by smile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some people get jealous because they dont have confidence in them selfs.
2006-11-26 17:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a person is jealous it could show that they love you and they really don`t want to share you.i don`t think it wud be fun to be in a relationship and when you`re flirting with another person galfriend or boyfriend wasn`t jealous or didnt mind you wud feel like the person does not care about you. so maybe jealousy is sort of important.
But on the other hand some type of jealousy shows possessiveness and lack of trust.it would also be pissing to be in a relationship and the person doesn`t trust you .
so jealousy actually shows either love or lack of trust depending on the extent.a person who is jealous only when you are doing annoying things like flirting with other people loves you. a person who is jealous half the time even if you are just walking to the store with your cousin doesn`t trust you.
2006-11-27 01:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by babeschick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that jealousy is a catch-all term that covers a whole slew of negative emotions that are rooted in insecurity. Often there are good reasons to be insecure. If you really feel that your partner is untrustworthy, then he likely is. But is he REALLY wanting to find a new partner? Or is it just that you are afraid that you're not worth staying with, and so you end up with your imagination running away with you? What we imagine and what is actual are sometimes two VERY different things.
Bottom line: jealousy has nothing to do with how much we love someone. It has more to do with how little we love ourselves.
2006-11-27 18:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually u r jealous coz u love that person coz u want him to be round the clock wiz u. u feel insecure wen he is not around bcoz in the coener of ur mind u think that possibly he is wiz some one else. and u cant accept to lose ur love thus its both that u love him too much to acept that he meets the world, its a bit selfish as u want him 4 u only this is coz u love him dearly and its a bit lack of confidence n trust may be coz u have seen lots of boys cheating their girl. but jealousy shows that u care for him. a bit of it is ok but if u go out of context u will lose him 4ever. beware.
2006-11-27 01:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by sham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealously shows how much you distrust a person and how insecure you are. Jealously is a complete waist of time and emotions. I wouldn't be with someone that gave me a reason to be jealous, if they gave me a reason, it would be over. Unfortunately you can't always be understanding, depends on the people involved and the situation.
2006-11-27 01:22:04 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy shows how insecure you are.
2006-11-27 01:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal for human's feelings. but to answer your Q, I think it's a little bit of both.
2006-11-27 01:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity and possibly trust issues
2006-11-27 01:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both
2006-11-27 01:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋