my first kiss was with a girl and i am now 18 and i haven't kissed any guys yet. i find men attractive but i can't seem to find one to get intimate with. i've been with girls but im not sure whether i liked them or if i was too drunk to control myself. so am i a lesbian or just someone who can't get a guy?
2006-11-26 17:03:28 · 16 answers · asked by adorkable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not necessarily an either-or thing. You find men attractive, so pretty much by definition you're not exclusively homo. But you seem to keep going back to girls, so you're apparently not exclusively hetero.
Welcome to the world of bisexuality. I think a lot more women fall somewhere on this scale than they usually talk about. Don't sweat it, just date who you feel like dating. Most likely you'll eventually wind up settling down with a man, just because that's the easiest thing to do.
2006-11-26 17:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're bi-curious. The fact that you're attracted to guys would make you at least bisexual. Give it time and you'll find a nice enough guy. The kind people you pursue shouldn't be a decision; be with the ones you like the most. Don't like girls just because you can't get a nice guy. I think that's why a lot of women are lesbians and it makes bisexuals like me frustrated. A lot of lesbians are oily, fat, old women who couldn't get men to sleep with them when they were still straight. They counted their losses and changed their orientation. Problem is, it's not nice to be the second choice. I'm not attracted to those sort of women at all.
2006-11-27 01:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First - stop getting drunk. Try having an experience sober and you will know for sure. I think you just a late bloomer that likes men but hasn't found the right one.
2006-11-27 06:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about that..
well i just want to ask you before?are you love another girl now?
how often you feel crush with boys?
if you still think and loving boys..don't worry u're not lesbian.
but if you already ignore about boys now..that's ok too..everyone can make a mistake..just forget about your past and start to find a new guy for you..gud luck
2006-11-27 01:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by princess Daniella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this before, you said you had a boyfriend in that other question... Hmmmmm, kinda fishy... I think you are a dude that likes transvestites. Seek help immediately.
2006-11-27 01:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you just havent settled down. Your only 18 honey, you dont need someone so quick. Live your live....
2006-11-27 01:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by RAW DIVA™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you masturbate do you think of girls or guys? There's your big clue. You might be bi.
2006-11-27 01:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know if you are a lesbian or not
2006-11-27 01:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bring yourself and one of your girlfriends to Dr.Love's Shack and we will find out.
2006-11-27 01:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
you're just not yet find the right person, that's all.
2006-11-27 01:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by peter71 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋