2006-11-26 17:02:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first thing i will say is "different strokes for different folks". sometimes 2 people can feel the same way about each other, but no one will say anything about it. for numerous reason. one being fear of putting the heart out there and it being stepped on. you never know, he may have been waiting forever to hear you say it. i speak from past situations where i've dragged my feet on letting a girl know that i was interested in her, and when i told her it was too late, and all she could do is feel bad and repeat "omg why have you never said anything". if he reacts in a negative way, dont take it as a loss. atleast you know where his head is. if you're willing, then try to work on it if you see that its something that he may potentially agree with. i cant speak for every guy. i dont like to think like or of myself as other guys. the best advice i can say would be to talk about it. if you dont want to say it, then just have a conversation about it. he may get the clue. whether you do it directly or indirectly. get to know his thoughts and feelings. shoot, you may even want to flip it. instead of telling him, ask him if he wants to or thought about spending the rest of his life with you
2006-11-26 17:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by H W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'd like to spend the rest of my life with you" is good for starters. The trick is to keep it casual. Don't turn it into one of those "serious discussions" most men hate with a passion. If he doesn't respond right away, don't pressure him into an answer. Give him time to think it over. If he's interested, he'll pick up on it... maybe not immediately, but soon. If he doesn't, then you're better off to let it ride for a while. Just, whatever you do, DON'T repeat this. ONCE is enough. He heard you. The ball is in his court. If he doesn't bring the subject up after a reasonable amount of time, you're probably fishing in the wrong pond. Walk away with your dignity intact. You'll never, after all, be able to force someone to love you.
2006-11-27 01:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by 1staricy2nite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you want to spend your rest of your life with him.
and tell he that if he leave you 7 year from now you wouldn't get mad.it take about a good seven year to know a person. and it take 10 to 15 year to deal with him. the same goes for a girl.
2006-11-27 01:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by SENSES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, seriously, DON"T. Not unless you want to scare the sh** out of him. I think that is something he needs to tell you. You dont say whether or not you guys have talked about this. If you haven't talked in a casual way about the future, you saying something so blunt is a BAD idea.
2006-11-27 01:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. If you really mean it he will see that you mean it. However, first make sure he feels the same way...you don't want to scare him away.
2006-11-27 01:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to do that is to know that he want the same thing because if he don't you may get your feelings hurt
2006-11-27 01:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a good idea.. Period!
Just keep that sentiment to yourself & things will forever be ok. OK?
2006-11-27 01:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt.. just be with them for the rest of your life.. your eyes should say it all
2006-11-27 01:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by queenelizabeth40112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him all about your thoughts and your view for future with.
2006-11-27 01:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise him with a romantic dinner and tell him what u feel...!
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2006-11-27 01:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋