2006-11-26 16:15:22 · 15 answers · asked by babi girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell the girlfriend first, and then consult with the guy what you guys should do about the situation. oh and most importantly, be sure that you are or aren't pregnant before any drama gets started.
2006-11-26 16:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jeffrey W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out for sure if you are pregnant- this will have a huge impact on both you lives.
If you are NOT pregnant then walk away- you don't want someone willing to cheat, you should feel very blesses and lucky if you aren't pregnant.
If you are pregnant (and under 18) either tell you parents and the father and plan for parent hood OR plan to give your baby up OR get it aborted. Between those choices can't even begin to tell you which is the right choice.
If you are 18 + you need to still make a choice but at least you have more options for the future.
I really hope for your sake that you aren't pregnant, and if you are i hope that guy pulls through. My prayers and best wishes = )
2006-11-27 00:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Melvina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are pregnant. Then decide if you want to keep it. If not then find a clinic and get it taken care of. Either way you need to tell the girlfriend about it so she knows what a lowlife her bf is but make sure you have another friend there in case the gf goes mental. Then talk to your parents and let them know your if your keeping it and move on from there. Everyone can make mistakes. Don't let this ruin your life. Good Luck.
2006-11-27 00:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having unprotected sex with men. Stop having sex with men that have girlfriends.
Take a pregnancy test. Stop speculating. If you are pregnant, see a doctor and then tell him. You may be in this on your own, but that's the harsh reality. You'll be fine, but the most important thing is to get tested for STDs and pregnancy.
2006-11-27 00:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by featherives 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and the guy should be ashamed of yourselves.
There's really nothing to do except tell him and you'll both have to face reality for the next 21 years.
2006-11-27 00:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pregnancy test. Find out for sure. Stop sleeping w/other girls boyfriends. and tell him if you are pregnant. Tell your parents.
2006-11-27 00:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Did you know he had a gf before you did the deed? If so, you are a tramp and a hussie.
But personal opinions aside, tell the guy and tell the girl.
2006-11-27 00:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off....find out if u really r pregnant....then if u r and ur sure he's the father then tell him bout it....if he's like most guys he'll deny it......but girl...why would u sleep w/ a guy that already had a gf???
2006-11-27 00:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should already know!!!! You better go find out if you really are. You also need to tell him. I hope you get the answer you're looking for...
Be Blessed..
2006-11-27 00:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste any time. Go to a women's clinic now and set a date for an abortion. You don't need this in your life right now.
2006-11-27 02:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋