Hey, I'm 21 and want to find a girl for a relationship. However, the girls I see ALL seem the same (the "omg i luv will ferrell" type of girls.) It's difficult to find a girl who's more spiritual (i dont mean religious) and down to Earth. It's just a trial and error thing? Or are there specific places I should be looking?
2006-11-26 16:14:52 · 12 answers · asked by Mike 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look at a bookstore, or library, or art museum to weed out the dumb ones
2006-11-26 16:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by j. a. prufrock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might try finding your lady love in:
Starbucks
The book store
In a music store that sells classical or world music CDs
In the library
You can attend classes in a college for free. It's called auditing classes. You don't get credit for them though because you don't pay any tuition money to just sit in on classes and learn for free.
Pick classes that teach subjects that YOU are interested in. There, you will find girls that share your same interests.
Also a place that teaches spiritual awareness . Try finding some places in your area like that on your computer. I'm sure there will be atleast 2 or 3.
Good luck and have fun. You should find girls with substance in those places.
2006-11-26 16:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's cool that you're looking for that. You might not want a religious woman, but a church might be the place to start. Maybe somewhere that has your basic beliefs. There are less strict churches around. I don't think you should look too hard for your partner in life. You're still very young and have plenty of time, so have faith that it will happen. At the same time if you find a good one don't let her go! Keep being a cool guy and being the kind of person that you hope to find and I think that you'll attract her to you eventually. Good luck.
2006-11-26 16:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm not sure where your looking but there are girls out there looking for the same thing. It's hard to find the right person, don't give in. I met my man at the mall, you just never know. Think about the type of girl your looking for and figure out where she would be hanging out. Book store, church, pottery class, beach, grocery store...I'm not trying to be funny, You just never know. Good Luck.
2006-11-26 16:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm how bout when u go to a bar or smthing, dont go for the girls going crazy on the dance floor, but the ones who are sitting down with friends drinking soda or smthing. they tend to be the more down to earth or 'tame' gals. u cld check out bookshops or libraries or even music shops but honestly they could be anywhere. good girls dont usually hang out in one place alone lol. i guess it is in a way a trial and error thing. if u like someone, ask em out, go out with em and if things work out, then good for u n if things dont, well then miss perfect is still out there. gdluck:)
2006-11-26 16:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...most of the girls u see r gonna be that type u don't want....all crushed out over a guy on tv...but there's no specific place where u can find the kinda girl u want...eventually a girl like that will just come to u....just keep ur eyes open for her
2006-11-26 16:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by dani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep looking, search beyond the limits you are now, my guess is your are physically attracted to this ditzy girl type so that is why you keep meeting them. I'm not saying pick up some ugly thing, just good lookin in a different way.
2006-11-26 16:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trial and error mostly i think, though if there is a place i want to know!but maybe there are places that are not very good for meeting a quality person namely bars or anywhere that alcohol is the focus.good luck.
2006-11-26 16:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by haa haa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is the harder to try, the more chance of fail it will be. So stop looking, the right girl will come to you naturally. That's my 2 cents.
BUT if you really really want to look for one, try places where you enjoy going. Chances are, you may meet someone with similar interest.
2006-11-26 16:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres not really a whole lot you can do besides what you are already doing.... just keep on doing all the one-on-one things and eventually you will do them so much they will become dates! Confidence is hard.... if someone doesn't have confidence its extremely hard to get.... just try to compliment her alot (once or twice every time you see her)
2016-05-23 07:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, congrats on keeping your standards high, most guys don't even care if a girl can talk...lol...don't worry though, good things come to those who wait : ) i'm kinda in that same place, plenty of guys around, but not someone you can really talk to or trust, you know...
2006-11-26 16:20:25 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋