much married when i met him but we ended up going for 31/2 more years.now he is divorced but leaves in another state we still keep in contact but we havent messed around in over a year so all together we have been in contact for bout 5 years now.i love him to death and was willing to give him my all.but then there r times when he make it known that he is there messing with other people and i know he is as well.im cool with that but at the same time should i keep waiting for him to grow up or should i just go away and tell him not to contact me anymore and be lonely as he seems he wants to be? or would that be wrong to throw it away??????
2006-11-26 16:12:18 · 11 answers · asked by sweetoceana204 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MOVE ON!!!!! he was basically cheating on you and his wife when you met. I have been there done that and trust me he wont change. he will hurt you further. move on move on move on. you deserve that for yourself
2006-11-26 16:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by kellie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trap of the way the world is-knowing how u feel has u pushing buttons. that okay cause they story goes that all men are jerks so that out now what's next u can have it both way but there is allot of VD out there and the doctor is the dividing line in good health on some of these extra games cause some of them u stuck with for life if he's with the wrong girl be it known that it will be nice to have him around if he's clean and u can enjoy him as it was and have it work til you find mister right who will look just like mister wrong but the doctors can't tell the difference
2006-11-26 16:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw it away. Not every man is the same but since he cheated on his wife with you, what makes you think he will think twice about doing it again? Seeing as you havent "messed around" in over a year tells me that he is not that into you anymore. You need to move on and find someone who deserves you and someone who would be faithful. Good luck.
2006-11-26 16:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
The hardest thing to choose to be is alone. This connection is doing little for you. Choose to be alone and move on. Find out your true worth and then seek love; but hot before you do some self-improvement.
And no more married men. That was the first mistake in a relationship that wasn't going to go anywhere.
2006-11-26 16:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by featherives 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He thinks the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence if he cheated on his wife while he was married he will cheat on you too. He probably just wants you for the sex. as men can detach emotionally much better than women. if he truly wanted you he would want to be around you all the time don't waste your time on him,.
2006-11-26 16:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl give that up he lives in another state if u spend your time waiting on him then u are a fool.
2006-11-26 16:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... you were his dish on the side!.... Move on and dont waste your time...... This guy like's 3 wheeled bicycle's..... Now that he's dumped his wife,... he does'nt seem keen to be saddled with another one,.... check out some dating site's, and find someone better!...
2006-11-26 16:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my frnd find another love for you if he cant devote his time to you right now or gets divorced soon.
plz dont wait. have a life of your own.
2006-11-26 16:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by nitin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello you are already alone, so how much worse can it get?
You'll end up alone?
2006-11-26 16:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw what away? You got nuthin'.
2006-11-26 16:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋