How can i tell if a guy is coming on to me or just talking to me as a friend?

Answer 1

its hard but just sit him down and tell him like you stated here

Answer 2

It's hard to tell without much information. I think it's usually pretty clear if someone likes someone else in that way unless they're quite young or have just recently met. Usually, people who like you in that way will find excuses to touch you, make a lot of eye contact or blush, and compliment you a lot.

If you really want to know, you may have to ask the person. Hope everything works out.