This person was my first same sex experience. She was really good to me. I just dont understand what made her to just up and stop talking to me. Ive been acting like im over her in front of her and my friends but im still just a lil confused and a lil hurt. Am i missing her because im hurt or did i really like a girl?
2006-11-26 16:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by ticklemetiti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both, honey! You miss her because you like her and you have to admit, because she made you feel an emotion-- even if its hurt/pain. But no pain comes without joy and I bet you both had that.
Now how do you know that you're over someone?
It's when you can look at him/her in the eye and being able to tell the other person that you're really happy for him/her, with actually meaning it.
Love might be tough, all in all, at the end of the day, it's all good. Admit it =)
I suggest you talk with this girl if she's up for it. If not, at least you tried right? You did your part, period. Then try moving on and find someone else who deserves you. That attachment you feel with this person is because of that special bond you had, especially sexually. Moving on does not mean forgetting someone. They're always going to be a part of your history-- but if they choose to be, 'history', then let them be. You'll just end up miserable pushing for something that in the end, may not want to be with you anyway-- you wouldn't want that, right? Nobody does! Not even those extremely depressed! Let me share with you a quote:
"It's better to have nobody than...
somebody's who's half yours,
half there or
doesn't want to be there,
or there and then suddenly,
disappears."
From here on now, happiness is a mere choice: you decide.
Goodluck to finding Ms. Right!
2006-11-26 16:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still have feelings for a person even when everything is over.
As you move on with your life the feelings will not be so fresh.
You'll always remember her but she'll be a part of your past.
2006-11-27 00:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not effected in any way when...
You hear their name.
You see them with someone new.
You go to a place you both once went too...and when you dont get caught in the "you were the ONLY one for me " thinking...
2006-11-27 00:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably need some distance to determine that go away if you come back and you still feel the pain theres some unfinished things there
2006-11-27 00:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know when you dont think of them anymore
and when you see them, you dont feel the same way
you might like someone else
and you could careless if tehy're with someone new or anything
2006-11-27 00:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by kaybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all move through the process differently.for you it might take time but never pretend or deny your own feelings to save face
2006-11-27 00:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by fifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know your over someone, when you dont ask the question if your over that person.
2006-11-27 00:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Uriah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you can see them and it does bother you at all
2006-11-27 00:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a 2nd ?
2006-11-27 00:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals everything. in my opion?
2006-11-27 00:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋