Guy I am curently talking to asked if I was a virgin. I told him no. Turns out he is a virgin. Which is good. I asked him if it was a problem that i was not a virgin. He hesitated to give me an answer. I do not know what to tell him. I can't change the past. Before he wanted to get to know me and maybe be more than frineds. Now i don't know if that is possible if he is looking for a virgin. Am i wasting my time trying to get to know him better? Should i just forget dating him all together? Help PLEASE!
2006-11-26 15:59:38 · 4 answers · asked by Hypnotizedeyez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry if he thinks it is such a big deal he does not care about you as much as he should
front him find out what his problem is --- it may be able to be resolved if not then its best to know
2006-11-26 16:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big mistake
Do not ask do you have a problem with my not being a virgin
What can you do about it?
You do not owe this person an apology, or explanation at all.
What's done is done, you should have no regrets, because there are lessons in everything.
If you are religious, well that's between your God and you.
Never never let anyone feel that you are less valuable.
Keep on getting to know this guy, but if he shows signs of wanting you to apoligize for the past, or makes you feel in any way less valuable, Run. It won't end there.
2006-11-27 00:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked you an up-front question....so now you ask him one.
Does not being a virgin matter to him?
When he gives you his answer you'll know what to do.
2006-11-27 00:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A strong relationship begins in friendship. I don't see why you guys can't be friends.
2006-11-27 00:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋