i like this guy and i feel maybe he likes me too, but why isnt he making the first move? should i make the first move?... i dont know how to do it though?..how is the right way to do it? plz help! thanx!
2006-11-26 15:57:22 · 24 answers · asked by sWeeTcHe11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I prefer it.
2006-11-26 15:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely OK for a girl to make the first move. Guys like getting asked out as much as girls do we just don't like to admit it. As for how to do it. Let him know how you feel and see if he is okay with it. If he seems to like the idea of you and him together then start out with something small and not too stressful.
2006-11-27 00:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by knite_hawk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rule today is there isn't a rule regarding this.
No reason not to make the first move. Sometimes guys need to be motivated and you got to be the motivator!!!
Just be natural with him and don't play any games. Well at first anyway. That comes later.
2006-11-27 00:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Gnome 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is definitley ok for a girl to make the first move. just flirt with him. give him the hint that you like him, and he might do something about it then. let him know you are interested, because he might be going thru the same thing. if you want you can ask him out to the movies or bowling or something. if he says he doesnt like you, then you can say that you wanted to go as friends. but if he considers it as a date, then just keep going on from there
2006-11-27 00:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly fine for a girl to make the first move. i myself prefer the guy to make the move but you know if you wait too long and nothing happens just go for it some guys like girls who can take control
2006-11-27 00:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big yeah on that one. We guys are soooo tired of having to make the first move. Just try to do it with taste ok. Good luck to you ...you are a brave girl.
2006-11-27 00:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem. I like this guy and I'm pretty sure that he likes me too. I usually talk to him first, because I guess he's shy. I like to just go to him and say something that I know will interest him. I like to say hi to him while passing and make comments. DON'T twirl your hair, bat your eyelashes or any of that juicy, flirty stuff. keep it causal and light. don't rush into anything too fast!
good luck...even though i'm not a boy...
2006-11-27 00:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes too shy then yes make the first move.
2006-11-26 23:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya sure. Just go ahead and ask him. Nothing wrong if the girl will ask some guy out. And in case you are the shy types just take help of your friends.
2006-11-27 00:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya its alright for girls to make the first move, go for it, and we have the same problems that your having now about how and when to make it
2006-11-27 00:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by eternity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is the person you like if it someone you have known you should make the first move
2006-11-27 00:00:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋