Are there other average looking guys with good looking girlfriends?
Should I worry when her and her friends go out to bars or clubs??
We have been dating for 3 years, help me out. Thanks.
2006-11-26 15:51:50 · 16 answers · asked by Ray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can trust her, then you don't need to worry about her when she is out with her friends. Trust between the two of you has to be absolute. Take it from a gal who is stunning.
2006-11-26 15:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by no worries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all don't worry what her friends say they will always do that. My girlfriend's friends did the same said that I wasn't good blah blah. Your girlfriend has her own mind and she decides what best for her not her friends. If your girl is attractive she will pick up alot it happens as long as she doesn't respond in any way that might appear as if she is trying to breakup with you. There's always that guy that has more looks better. As for her going clubbing, let her. Women need their space too. You should worry if she starts paying less attention to you or avoiding you due to clubbing, bars and getting pick up alot. Also you better let her know who the man is when it comes to intimacy.
2006-11-26 16:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by Proximo83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what other people say about your girlfriend being too good for you is not something you should worry about. What matters is how the two of you feel about the situation. If she is happy going out with you and you are happy going out with her that is all that matters.
Secondly just because she is good looking does not mean that you should worry when she goes out with friends. The question is how you feel about it. If it bothers you you need to talk to her about it. She will more than likely understand, but you should not try and stop her from going. If you try that it may lead to her feeling you are trying to control her. Let her reassure you that she is just out with friends and that if someone were to "hit" on her she would not do anything to jeopardize your relationship.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-26 16:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sapphire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry, unless there is something to worry about. If she has had a past on cheating then I wouldn't even stay with her. My girlfriend is gorgeous, and I am average. We are so close though, she wouldn't do anything like that, she is even starting to talk about marriage, and all that other good stuff. pssh ha ha. The main part of a relationship is trust, if you don't have that you're screwed. If your girlfriend is still with you after three years, I think you got the cat in the bag.
2006-11-26 15:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Screaminfiero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if her friends liked you, looks should not matter. They would as the term is "cock block" for you when they went out. IF they say she is too good for, then rest assured they are trying to hook her up with guys they deem good enough at clubs. Sounds like she has really superficial friends, ones that care about looks more than anything else. If you have been with her for three years, she knows you have more than looks to offer her. If her friends are pushing her the other way, they yes be scared and worried. Perhaphs showing her friends why she likes you may change their mind?
2006-11-26 15:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by hinduhammer8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is still with you for 3 years and she looked good the whole time, I wouldn't think so.Obviously she sees something in you that she doesn't see in those guys that try to get her-if you still have her.If you feel that you are average looking and she looks good, wasn't it that way when you got together? You still got her didn't you?
2006-11-26 15:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's been with you this long...if she was going to cheat on you it wouldn't have taken 3 years. Just be happy shes still around, you must be doing something right for a hot girl to stick around, so don't be so worried.
2006-11-26 15:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mathew M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but it is OK
well you should not worry if she loves you (well it seems like she does if you guys have been together for that long
you should not care what her friends she if she love you that is enough you don't need her friends approval
2006-11-26 16:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve been dating for 3 years, you have nothing to worry.
2006-11-26 15:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Uriah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....... if this happen's a lot now,...... it's going to happen a lot in the future..... Sooner or later,.... you're luck's gonna run out dude... then what are yuh gonna do...... Cut her loose dude, and go for an O.K. chick, instead of a hot one..... O.K. chick's are way, way, better when your'e looking at the long term!...
2006-11-26 16:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋