my friend told me my bf asked out another girl and i no its true bc he asked out a girl wen we were going out before and should i tell him i no and be like **** u were through bc he tries to deny it or is it just rumors but a few as in more than 1 told me that he did. he always said that i would be his forever and that we were destended so y does he a lready want to ask another girl out as hes going outwith me please help thanks for ur advice
2006-11-26 15:49:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want advice? I mean, do you really, really want to hear TRUE opinions?
Because it's to dump the Guy. Okay, But if he's not ready for monogamy and insists that it's okay if he flirts and is unfaithful, then this is not a man worth keeping.
You're probably cringing, thinking, "But he's the love of my life!" Trust me, he's not. The love of your life will respect your needs and wishes, and won't disrespect you by being unfaithful. God help you if you end up marrying him then you be in worse trouble than you are in now!!
If you're still not ready to give him the hook and really think he deserves one more chance, then give him an ultimatum and a firm one too: "Either you stop or it's over between us." Tell him that even though his "flings" may be meaningless to him, they give you tremendous pain. If he truly cares for you, he won't take your threat lying down. But, as I've said if you dilute an ultimatum by going back on it, you lose your power position and he'll continue dipping and snacking on the side and treat you as 'Dirt'. You'll know soon enough whether or not he can keep his promise.
Sorry to end on a downer, but ask yourself if a man who has to be coerced into being faithful is likely to remain faithful over the long haul.
The decision is yours, take time to think over it and act but act you must.
Good Luck>r
2006-11-26 16:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's one of ur good friends that u know u can trust and u know they hate seeing u hurt then it's definately true so just dump him...cuz there's no point in being w/ a guy who is trying to get with other girls
2006-11-26 23:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any idea how many people say they are destined to be together and are lying?!? alot of them. If he's asking out other girls he's clearly not the one for you, end of story. Why you want to be with someone who hurts you?
2006-11-26 23:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mathew M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he's done it before, he's probably done it again. He doesn't deserve you, especially if he's going to lie to you and mistreat you. Don't waste anymore of your time or energy on him. Tell him it's over and find somebody who will respect you.
2006-11-26 23:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Quentin's Mommy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how sure are you that he did this. and the best way to tell is by catching his reaction to asking him that question.
2006-11-26 23:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by Uriah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋