I have this friend that i have been seeing for the past 3yrs about 3wks ago he got married to his gf that he has been w/4 5yrs and i just found out a few days ago. he got married 4 protective reasons and he really hasnt been happy since now me and him have been fallin out really bad and i dont know what to do i really love him and i know he loves me but i dont like messin w/married men plus hec has been so stressed out lately and does not want to talk to me b/c of that girl is stressin him and im starting to get tired of it all i dont know what to do can someone help i dont want to let him go but i dont want to hurt either. please serious answers only. what should i say to him? what should i do?
2006-11-26 15:44:07 · 12 answers · asked by pg#3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This " friend" married his g/f of 5yrs and not you ? Hmmm....I suspect the reason he isn't happy is you won't " fool" around with him any more which is a good thing. You need to cut your loses and find some one new and honest that will care for and about everything you are about. I know it hurts and I am very sorry for that. As a famous person once said.." I know I have a Heart now because it's breaking." ( Tin Man Wizard of Oz ) Be strong and hang in there. Things have a way of working out. God never closes 1 door without opening another 1.
2006-11-26 15:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is married, no one has a right to interfere in any way unless there is spousal or child abuse.
You are not a counselor and it's really none of your business. Besides you really don't know what's going on. After all, no one forced the marriage and people can divorce.
2006-11-26 15:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what usually happens the only thing u can do is give him back to the woman he married he is not worth u stressing if he isnt even willing to change lives and be with u y would u stress over someone elses life stress over ur own it aint part of cause he is not ur man.move on find one that can be or chill with just u let him go home and deal with his own life.
2006-11-26 15:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by sweetoceana204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find a new man. Sure this guy might mean a lot to you, but he obviously doesnt have that much respect for you, your feelings, or youre relationship. He probably deserves to be with the bitchy girl, for that. Find some one who loves you and isnt afraid to scream it from the roof tops. You could also if you are really attached to this man give him an ultimatum, her or you. If he picks her, for protective reasons, or not, its his loss.
2006-11-26 15:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by hannah s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... he got married, leave him alone. Now wait, it was OK to fool around with him when he had a gf for 4-5 years, but you don't like messen with married men? Sounds like they don't like messing around with you either. Move on, whatever you feel or believe, get over it. He's married.
2006-11-26 15:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's married now give his relationship a chance with his wife. and step aside. If he leaves on his own accord and finds you then thats different' but by you interfering will not help there marriage any better. let him deal with it and his feelings. if he's not happy he'll do soemthing about it. its not for you to make up his mind for him.
Continue on with your life and I would leave him be. if he comes to you on his own and single then you can continue a relationship and see where it takes you
2006-11-26 16:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pl leave him and start a new life, that will be better for both of u and to the other woman.
2006-11-26 15:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he married this lady --- for whatever reasons --- if he wanted to be with you he would have married you
i suggest you forget about him and find someone who will respect you and be with you alone
2006-11-26 15:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth thats all you can do and try and stay good friends with him hope this helps you sorry bout that
2006-11-26 15:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by JADE M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-26 15:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋