I tell her I Love her every night i talk to her.....but she never actually says, "I Love You" back. She always just says, "You Too". Why is this?
2006-11-26 15:41:29 · 29 answers · asked by Supafly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess its just me. I dont think saying "I Love You" is that big of a deal, but it seems like you guys do. hmm...and byt the way, we have been dating for a week...but I said it before we were even dating also.
2006-11-26 16:24:36 · update #1
How long have you been with her? And why don't you ask her, you should, if it's been a while, she may not be feeling the same way about you and doesn't know what to say or, she is insecure about the relationship. Let her know your feelings on this, communication is the key!
2006-11-26 15:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by You are loved 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by cuthrell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people place different value on the phrase. If you get along and have a great time together, does it matter if she loves you? Loving someone does not guarantee fidelity or longevity in a relationship. Leave her alone about it. She will come around or she won't.
I once had a highschool boyfriend who said it too much, and it lost its meaning, then it got on my nerves, and then it turned me off and I dumped him.
Just have fun and take it slow.
2006-11-26 15:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by theobracco4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls are confusing. Maybe thats how her parents responded to her, maybe shes not sure she loves you yet, or maybe she doesnt realize it. If you really want to know, when ur getting off the phone, dont say anything and see if she says I love you instead of you saying it.
2006-11-26 15:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, for some people saying "I Love You" comes easy. I have friends that tell everyone, I Love You. For me, myself, I don't throw those words around easily. I have to really know I mean it, because if you don't its not fair to the person your telling it to. It can create false hopes that hurt someone later. So, maybe she wants to be really sure before she says those words to someone. When she says it then you can be sure she means it.
2006-11-26 15:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry when she didnt say "I love you". Girls are not like guys, its take time for them to say it out. And sometime they didnt even say it out at all but you can tell that they love you. How is that? By the way she looks in your eyes, her smile at you and her touch on you. Did you ever notice that? You dont have to hear her say "I love you" but wait for the look from her eyes saying "I love you". Good luck!
2006-11-26 16:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really believe the only way you'll get a true answer to your question is to ask your girlfriend. . We could all speculate and some answer may sound right or be the one you want to hear. But, dude she is the one with the answer. ask her, and tell her how it makes you feel when she; responds to your "I love you" the way she does. good luck and I love you! But don't tell your girlfriend ! :)
2006-11-26 15:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't ready to say that she loves you. She could feel like you are coming on too strong especially if you guys haven't been together that long. Try not saying it and see if she comments on why you didn't say it. Good luck!!!!
2006-11-26 15:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not comfortable with it yet. Don't push it.
Maybe she wasn't raised to be so forth coming with her feelings.
Maybe she's unsure if it's "THAT KIND" of love. Give her time
Maybe you're using it too soon. How long have you been dating?
Maybe she feels she's too young to be so committed.
Did you ask her?
2006-11-26 15:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either very shy or she does not love you or may be she is waiting for the right moment.Saying i love u really means alot.So just wait for her
2006-11-26 15:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by jingirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋