I'd really like to hear. And no one will think you're shallow, and if they do, who cares?
2006-11-26 15:16:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality WILL make that person more attractive physically!
2006-11-26 15:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by rahimj_27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible if you like anything else about that person and are loyal to that person, then if your not physical right away then it shouldn't matter but eventually to make the next step toward marriage it will take alittle bit of sexuality and that moving forward to know that it's real and then you will probable want to do it alot before marriage and even when married to get the fire burning otherwise it will go out and divorce will happen when you stop liking each other and the fire is out.
2006-11-26 15:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is... but my experience with this is a little strange because I never ever ever in a million years found this particular guy attractive and turned him down 3 times but he persisted and I decided I'd buy myself time by agreeing to go out with him until I could formulate a good escape plan but I ended up really liking him....and looked past the fact that he was ugly until I didn't even notice. But then he cheated on me and he was uglier than ever and I was furious and became SO obnoxious because I considered myself so much better looking than him.
Anyway my point was supposed to be that ugliness and attractiveness can increase and decrease in proportion to how favourably you view them personality-wise.
2006-11-26 15:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the philisophical answer to this is that there is beauty in everyone; however if you do not find anything beuatiful in the potential partner, no. I think it is possible to love someone you are not phisically attracted to, but falling in love is just that falling without sense or direction, and generall one doesnt fall slow. Although it has to be possible in all probability, mostly when a person is not attracted to someone else, realizing they love them is a gradual process...
2006-11-26 15:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by shawn7911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I don't know...I guess you can love them for all the things that they are but I don't know how a relationship would be sustained without being physically attracted to the person.
I don't think that's shallow at all.
2006-11-26 15:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. For me physical attraction is number 1.
2006-11-26 15:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did. I knew someone I wasn't attracted to, he was not attractive, and I was much more attractive, and yes people did wonder, but I didn't care. I fell in love with him, not his looks, and it really didn't matter what other people thought a bit..
2006-11-26 15:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by veggiechick2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Love is more than how someone looks. When you love them and you don't like their looks you sincerely love them.
2016-05-23 07:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally know that i couldnt;
i guess it varies with the person.
to me, physical attraction is what
initially attracts me to a guy, so i
would find it difficult to fall in love
with someone who i didnt find attractive
on the outside as well as the inside.
2006-11-26 15:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by sweet.heart_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isn't all about physical attraction, in reality personality attraction is the foundation of true love.
2006-11-26 15:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋