How to reduce expectations from others?

Question

I try to be sincere in my duties and responsibilities. I expect others also to be sincere in their duties. If I do not find them sincere, I feel angry and uneasy.

Answer 1

i dnt think by feelin uneasy n angry others will change. u should do ur own work n not expect others to do for u same. coz i think dis world is pretty selfish ppl here do not wanna do work dey just want results. so u should carry on ur work. like d hindi sayin goes 'karam kar phal ki iccha mat kar' dont let other ppl effect u otherwise it will be much difficult for u to survive.. dis same prob was also wid me some time ago but den someone told me dis n now a days im much relaxed
i also suggest u to do some yoga, pranyam it gives peace of mind
i hope dis helps
Good luck

Answer 2

This can be answered based on your activities. If you are an employee, it is difficult for you to reduce otrher's expectations, especially of the employer. I take the other, you are an individual and your friends are expecting a lot from you. The best excuse is that your 'Mother does not like it, or let me aske my mother' and so on. Hope clear. In employment, you should be contrary. When others are expecting a lot from you, then only you are growing. Let others expect more and they would pay you more and otherwise, both are low. They would say, let her / him sit somewhere there. Try to be smart enough.

Answer 3

You have to step back and relax realize everyone is different in handling things. People can be trying to be sincere but to you it might not look like it. Lower your expectations a bit and just soak it all in and who knows maybe from letting your guard down once and awhile you might just learn a thing or to on how to be even better!

Answer 4

in this situtation u r not depend others. If u r individual other wise u r top level management u r give commends to middle level management elsewere u r middle level management u r give suggested directions to u r low level management and strictly give orders to u r low level employment elsewere u r low level mangement "wht u r boss expect from u thats first do it"
"keep coolminded is always give new chances for u"

thanking you
all the best to u r colourful future and take good decessions on u
r life.

Answer 5

Understand what Lord Krishna has said:
"Karmanye Vadhikaraste, Maa Phaleshu kadachna.."

Means U keep doing ur own duty, dont expect any returns from ur duty...let it depend on ME( the GOD).

With this quotation, I can say..'Do not expect any thing from others..keep doing ur karma (duties) without expecting anything from other people.'

For more information read the "Bhagvad- Geeta"

http://www.geetasaar.com/

Answer 6

Why are you upset, Pointless. Don't bother with others, take care of your own affairs..

Answer 7

u don't expect things from any one then u will be free of anger and unease

Answer 8

by hoping for the best and being prepared for the worst.

Answer 9

dude i think that we are on the same thing here...tell me if u find out about this...

Answer 10

stop expectations from others and others will stop expecting from you..... simple