ok, so i broke it off with my ex 2 weeks ago,
becuz i couldnt see us being together for a very long time.
and since then, he's been tellin me how much he misses me,
and how much he still loves me,
and i sorta just shrugged him off.
then on thanksgiving, i find out he has a new girlfriend
...who's prettier than me =(
but anyway..
he just started talking to her the day before thanksgiving,
and he's already saying "i love you".
he used to call me his "nerd".
he calls her his "dork".
and yesterday on a myspace survey
(yes, myspace ruins lives, dont it?)
he said his all time favorite movies were "the marine" and "the lake house".
it was our movies wen we went out becuz we watched it together, and we both liked them, and becuz he said so =P
he keeps posting bulletins all the time about his new girlfriend.
he even said "if i dont get to talk to you tonite, sweet dreams and i love you"
i used to say that to him all the time.
=(
i cant say im not jealous..
2 b continued....
2006-11-26 14:51:58 · 12 answers · asked by ajakhatarinaak47 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
becuz i sorta am..
how can i not be?
hard to see him so happy with someone else.
but i dont wanna get back together with him....
well ok, my question is
does anyone else think he's acting a little weird??
or is it just me...??
...is it just cuz im hurting that i noticed these things.....??
2006-11-26 14:53:59 · update #1
oh yeah i forgot to say,
why cant he just put it in a msg like a normal person?
but noo he just has to put it in a bulletin so everyone can read it....
sorry..i just read another one.
2006-11-26 15:09:57 · update #2
He was probably hurt when the two of you broke up....so him getting another girlfriend straight away is his way of getting over it & the fact that you're annoyed would probably make him happier. By posting all this crap over his myspace page about her is rubbing it in your face....it's obvious that he is acting a little wierd but that's proabably an effort to hide how he is really feeling inside. You have to think of it like this.....the poor girl he's with now won't last long because all he's trying to do is replace the relationship that you had with her.....hence him calling her similar nicknames etc.....it's pathetic but that's how guys try to show that they didn't care either.....i understand how you feel.....ofcourse you'd be jealous/hurt - it makes you think that your time together was just bullshit cause he's treating some other girl the same way he treated you....but obviously it was pretty good cause he can't let go. Just be the bigger person.....tell him congratualtions & the you're pleased that he is happy again.....that will tick him off even more....meanwhile you just get on with life & you'll find another guy in a second :) Good luck.
2006-11-26 15:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, the thing is, if he was ever really in love with you, he still is. This girl, is just being used to distract his mind from the pain he feels from being away from you. If you guys had something great in his mind, he's just trying to fill the void you left when you dumped him. Its okay to be jealous because he's acting like a child. Just disregard his myspace messages to his new g/f. He's just trying to make you jealous.
2006-11-26 15:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you just don't know it yet but you may love him. try going out with someone else and if you start to really like the new guy you are just jealous that he has a new girl in his life but if you don't feel anything or never start to really really like the new guy that may mean that you still love him
2006-11-26 15:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by alejandra611 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you, and then calls you decrease back, which could likely advise that he misses being with you and now is conventional with the way it feels to be without you for see you later. perhaps he needs you decrease back? attempt talking to him rather extra and observe the way it is going. Love must be rather compicated in certain situations...
2016-11-27 00:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is acting wierd,If I were you I would stop worrying about him,Maybe he is happy that he found somebody. I would just let it go. If he loves you he will come back to you. I think you are just being a little paraniod, just let it go.
2006-11-26 14:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK so you Brock it off with him then he said he misses you and such then you just blew him off? he could be trying to make you jealous!
2006-11-26 14:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes makin u jealous do the same get a boyfriend maybe even one of his buddies and make him jealous
2006-11-26 14:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he's trying to make you jealous with his little mind games. Don't fall into it. It's silly.
2006-11-26 14:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he's being weird. he might try and hurt u because u arent with him and he either wants to remember u buy doing things that u guys did or he's trying to hurt u, hard to tell. but he is acting weird
2006-11-26 14:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Fred 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i thin kyou're both dorks and wierd
2006-11-26 14:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋