i really like this one girl at school, and to be honest, i've never had a girlfriend before so i need help. i really like her a lot and i am a chicken wuss when it comes to women. she is the first girl that i have really truly care for thats not related to me. please, please help. how do i start a conversation? how do i talk to her without looking like a complete retard? i want to ask her out on a date but i have never even done that either. what do i say? what do i do? please someone help!
2006-11-26 14:51:16 · 16 answers · asked by football 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so what, start by talkin to her.
2006-11-26 14:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her just like you would any other person. Try to be a bit more sensitive than you would when talking to your male friends though. Chances are she wants to get to know you and you probably want to get to know her so ask her about her interests, etc. If you need an ice breaker, try making a joke or talking about current events (whether it be politics or even how the weather is out today, as overused as it is).
2006-11-26 14:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rika Ishikawa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're in high school... Slip her a note that says "Hi." Don't put anything else on it. If she smiles or laughs, that's a good sign. From then on out she'll know you exist and that you're interested. The door is then open for your invite. If, on the other hand, she scowls when she gets the note & starts to ignore you, you've just saved yourself a bunch of unpleasantness...
2016-05-23 07:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't seem so anxious- you will need to give yourself some time. Relaxing time is what I mean. If you seem too anxious and scared, it will show. For now, try not to think about it. The more you think about how you're going to talk to her, the more you will likely mess up. Just relax- it's not life or death situation. You'll get more chances later on in life. Trust me.
2006-11-26 14:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sylvia J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Long, Long time ago, I was there too! Pretty woman scared the heck out of me!
Pretend (in your own mind) that she is no different from anyone else you speak with on a daily basis, Male or Female!
I presently work with a woman who is a 12 on a scale of 1 - 10! I work with her as I would work with anyone else! We get along fine!
IMHO.
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-11-26 14:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you are really not alone by a long shot. There are alot of shy guys that send their friend over to check out the interest level and then there are always the notes. They work at all ages, even adults use them, it's so easy to write and then you can re-read it as much as possible. Please let her know your just shy in the beginning, she'll understand.
2006-11-26 14:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by I don't get it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really love her? Are you a shy guy? If you are, you can ask some of your friends to help you. If you are not, just start to talk to her.
Wish you good luck
2006-11-26 14:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Juddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start thinks out by having just a regular conversation. what would you say to a friend? think to yourself that she is just a friend, and you might feel less embarrassed. after you talk to her more, you could ask her if she would like to do something with you. like get lunch. bu
2006-11-26 14:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try talking the same way you talk to your best friend, but try to cut off some swear words and don't talk about girls to a girl....
2006-11-26 14:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by matin_10_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a person!!! Talk to her like you would anyone else!!! Try not to let the fact that she is a girl get to you! :)
2006-11-26 14:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,if you never talk to girls why don't you go up and if you can think up some of her hobbies and talk to her about them.
2006-11-26 14:55:56 · answer #11 · answered by animalloverxo123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋