What should I do?I am having trouble asking a girl on a date.
2006-11-26 14:23:38 · 25 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ask her if she would like to get a cup of coffee with you......if you are under the age of 18 just say "would you like to crab a bite to eat after ........(so and so activity ot school)."
2006-11-26 14:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to hang out some time and don't call it a date. Let things happen naturally. Dating is sort of lame and gives people too many expectations and sets you up for disappointments. Just do something comfortable and relaxed that reflects the laid back part of your personality. If you can't do that, well, I can't advise you since uptight men are such a turn off!
I'm engaged and have had boyfriends and interested males before my fiance, but I don't believe that I've ever actually gone on a date. We'd just hang out sometimes with friends and sometimes not. Nothing fancy.
2006-11-26 14:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend being straight forward and sincere. Just approach the girl you like, preferably when she is alone, and make small talk, ask how she is and so on, then be straight forward and say something like "I'd really like to get you know you better. Would you like to go out for coffee with me/ a movie with me/ rollerskating with me" (I don't know how old you are)
If she says no thank you then just say that's cool.
But from my experience, when a guy asks me out, I just really like for them to be sincere and straight forward. No lines, no showing off. If a guy is just friendly and polite its more likely that the girl will like you.
If she doesn't then its ok. At least you will know, and you can move on!
good luck
2006-11-26 14:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and ask her out. Don't worry, if she says no them remember she is not good enough. Being direct always lets you know where you stand and does not take too much time.
All the best.
2006-11-26 14:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon! it ain't hard to do, really! Just go over and ask her politely if she's interested in going out with you for a drink.movie or dinner!
P/S : Expect a rejection from her, its better to be prepared than being dissapointed. True?
2006-11-26 14:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sportivo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be pretty casual with it, and feel as though your asking a FRIEND out for a night... keep in mind you're gonna want to make it specific what you had in mind, because she might forget about it or think that you're not serious.
2006-11-26 16:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by lapintrou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask and realize this is just the beginning... like practice. Smile and say you would like to know if she wants to go to dinner with her.. girls know what that mean! What will you have to lose.... make sure to practice what you say to her.. come across smoother... oprah... actors ... even donald trumph use notes to come across smooth. Do it over the phone... so that you won't sound like your reading! good luck
2006-11-26 14:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by jmilil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just start normal conversation, and then throw in well what are you doing (insert a day here), if your not busy I was wondering if you would like to go out my treat.
2006-11-26 14:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by nautieb_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct and ask for going out. Girls like directness.
2006-11-26 14:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you weren't ready, if you are so nervous now, how will you be on the date sweating profusely and stumbling. Wait until your more mature and sure about your self.
2006-12-01 14:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋