i have had a crush on this guy forever, and he finally made a move on me a few weeks ago. we've been sleeping with each other ever since, but the only problem is he has a girlfriend! how can i make him dump her? i'm not looking for anyone to tell me to stop seeing him, that would be the obvious response here. i'm just looking for someone who has been in the situation to tell me how they got the guy to dump the girlfriend.
2006-11-26 14:21:10 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry guys, but i specifically asked not to get any "stop seeing him" answers. after researching similar questions i knew that would be an obvious overwhelming response and i'd like to hear other suggestions.
2006-11-26 14:44:56 · update #1
Oh my god. you are a naughty person. First, find out all his desires and what she is not doing. Then, do her job for a while and stop. He will miss the attention and want you more. Lastly give him an option. Tell him he can settle for good or go with the best. The key to this is to give hime something to miss and then take it away completely. That way you practically make the decision for him.
2006-11-26 14:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by wizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you think before you got in bed?!?!
1. I'm sorry that you are sleeping with a guy who already has a girlfriend because he obviously doesn't care about either you or her. If he can do this type of thing to his current girlfriend, he could have a great chance of doing the same thing to you when you become his girlfriend when he dumps her. so you need to be careful.
Personally, if he is really into you, he would've dumped his girlfriend by now - WITHOUT YOU THINKING UP OF WAYS TO "GET THE GUY TO DUMP HIS GIRLFRIEND" and he will dump her on his own.
2006-11-26 14:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimatum! If he truly wanted you as a girlfriend he'd have dumped the other already. Besides won't he eventually just cheat on you in the long run. Sorry I know it's not the response you want, but he's using you for his own satisfaction. Be strong, stand up for yourself and give the guy an ultimatum...if he doesn't dump her then it's obvious you need his attention not affection.
2006-11-26 14:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by kc4frks1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him and see what he says. If he says he won't. you can continue as you are. You can also do the drama thing and tell her about you, but he might then dump you.
He is his own person and if he is happy seeing both of you, why should he stop? You were content to be with him even though he is with someone else, why aren't you happy now?
You can go to a fortune teller and pay her money to do a break-up spell.
2006-11-26 14:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booty call! Need i say more? Best thing for you to do is tell his girlfriend that you are sleeping with him. I bet you won't. You are a coward as much as he is. He is not going to dump her unless he gets caught. You both deserve each other so to be fair to the girlfriend get caught and so you both have each other and stop hurting the girlfriend. Don't forget, "Karma" what comes around, goes around. Can U handle it????????
2006-11-26 14:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by my2luvsJK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth:it doesn't happen.you better off stoping the sex until he drops the gf otherwise you will always fill in the gap when he can't get any from his gf or they are having problems .He knows how you feel bout him will use that to his advantage.In my case I had to eventually break up with him. up to now He will still call and say he loves me but is still involved with the gf.The reason why he can't break up with her?He doesn't want to hurt her feelings and he loves both of us ":it is a complicated situation".My reasoning.............am too good to settle for second best or less.Untill you are the gf then you are still not the gf.she still holds the title you are just the gal he stringing along if incase it does not work out with her.Am sorry but STOP SEEING HIM.If he loves you enough and thinks that both of you have sthing great he will/should have leave/left her.already.But the again the choice is yours.
2006-11-26 14:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you were the girlfriend? You wouldn't want to be dumped. Why are you sleeping with a guy with a girlfriend anyway? That can be considered sleezy, but if you want to keep seeing him, then tell him to choose between you and his girlfriend. That would be rude though, since you are the intruder.
2006-11-26 14:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Bri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple , find another guy and start sleeping with him also. Then guy number one will show you how to get rid of the other woman.....as he dumps you. Get a life and a real relationship.
2006-11-26 14:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by bevfortbragg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is pathetic of you to actually want to intentionally hurt someone, which is what you will be doing if you continue to want him to dump his girlfriend. Why would he dump his girlfriend for you?? - you are the sleezy one he has on the side...nothing special. Get your own boyfriend.
2006-11-26 14:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by lop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to get a person to break up with their partner. He would have already broken up with her if that's what he wanted.
If he can cheat on his current girlfriend then he will cheat on you. Simple fact...he is using you. You need to get out of this situation. You need a guy who respects commitment, has morals and values.
2006-11-26 14:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by smanthajm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋