My best friend got taken away from her family.Her stepdad is crazy and my friend is home schooled. Her step dad did NOT WANT HER TO BE HOMESCHOOLED!!! Her dad also HATES HER OLDER BROTHER. So he called Difus. He told them that Her brother was sexually mallesting her younger sister. He thought that all they would do was take her brother to jail and they wouldn't let her be home schooled anymore. His plan back fired and they took the her and her little sister to foster care. Her mom used to have a mental problem but by the grace of God, she was healed. But the court held that against her. They treated her mom like she was crazy and her step dad like he was a god. Now she is back in the WORST SCHOOL IN THE STATE and even if she gets to go back home, she's not gonna be home schooled. Her mom said that when and if she gets her back, they were gonna move to another state!!! I'll probably never get to see her again. Please help me deal with this situation and also please pray for her.
2006-11-26 14:17:07 · 9 answers · asked by baldjacket 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Home Schooling
And one more thing. She just turned 11 and I'm about 2 turn 11 in 2 weeks. My mom kepps me updated every day cause my mom and her mom are close friends. It was a lie that her brother raped her. He step dad just said that to get rid of her brother and to stop her from being home schooled. Her little sister just turned 4. No one knows where she is. Not even her mom!
2006-11-26 14:17:43 · update #1
I am sorry honey. This is tough for you to go through. But really there is nothing you can do physically anyway.
All you can do is pray and be supportive.
Chances are her mom will get her back and probably the best thing for them would be to move out of the state and start fresh no matter how hard that is on you.
But in todays day and age this doesnt have to be the end of your friendship. There is the internet and of course telephones and good old writing a letter. You can still keep in touch if you really want to.
Be kind and supportive and understanding. A good listener. Hang in there it will work out!
2006-11-26 14:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a horrible situation to have to deal with. It sounds like you have a spiritual relationship with God that might really help you through this. It helps me to remember than God sees ecverything and knows what is going on and what is going to happen. He has amazing ways of turning mistakes and terrible circumstances into blessings. Let your friend talk about this as much as she needs to. Reassure her brother that you know he didn't molest her. Be calm in their presence. For yourself, pray, pray, and pray some more. Rest in the knowledge that God has a plan and your friend has a part to play in that plan, so He's going to make sure things work out so she can do her part. If she does have to move email or snail mail each other often, and work something out with your parents so you can call her sometimes. I'm so sorry that you are having to experience this and that your friend and her family have been thrown into chaos. I'll pray too.
2006-11-26 14:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by K L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that your friend has to go through this, but God will see her through. "If He brings us to it, He will see us through it" The courts should have had her to an ER somewhere to have a rape kit done on her to see if there was any physical evidence against her brother. The step-dad needs a lie detector test done. Then the mom and her need to be questioned by the police WITHOUT the step dad present. He cannot refuse this!! I won't say anything bad about the mom, but it sounds as if she let things get out of hand with her husband. She should have been the one to protect her children from him. It sounds to me like the step dad needs the psych exam......because he sounds like he is a few french fries short of a Happy meal. Again, I am sorry that your friend is going through this. Maybe you could suggest the things I wrote above to your mom and see if she can be of any help. I will definately keep you, your friend and her mom and siblings in my prayers. The step dad needs our prayers too. So that maybe he can change his ways and become a better man!! God bless you!!!
2006-11-27 00:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, as an eleven year old girl, there is only one thing you can do in this situation, and that is pray. Prayer is the exercise of true spiritual power. Go ahead and use the one and only power you have in this situation -- prayer.
Blessings on you and your friend and both of your families.
2006-12-01 17:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Coach Cheese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about that but I don't know what you can do but call the police and see what they acn do convince her mom to stay in the state and get rid of the step father.
2006-11-26 14:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Culinary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough feeling so powerless, isn't it? One thing you can do is to keep praying. Not just for her, but for all the kids and families this type of thing happens to.
2006-11-27 01:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by glurpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they can go to court and have you and your mom as witnesses.
2006-11-26 16:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Thechosenone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are for real, I will pray for both you and she. If this is a joke, it is a sick one.
2006-12-04 05:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church.
2006-12-02 13:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋