I've been reading a little bit about suicide and it seems that the group at highest risk is men who have never had girlfriends or sex(but want to). These men are the ones who are at highest risk to go through and complete suicide. These are usually men who are unsightly and were bullied heavily in school. Suicide usually occurs in the mid-late 20's. Why is it these poor folks?
This, I guess, puts me at risk because I myself am a 23 year old Stanford Undergrad who has never dated or had sex. I also always thought it was normal to think about suicide (which I do think about quite a lot). What type of SSRI Antidepressent I should take to completely diminish my sex drive? Which diminishes the sex drive the most?
Are there many men out there (%) who women find so physically repulsive that they (women) would never date/sleep with them?
Really, what happens to the psychological development of these peoples personality. Do they become bitter? How do they act? - Eccentric? Spiteful?
2006-11-26 14:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
First of all thinking like that and you will end up doing something that stupid. Look at Llyle Lovette...now he was and is an ugly man but he got laid. Im sure you will to. Don't give up quite yet. I can't tell you how many woman want virgins anyway. Believe me your like a new dessert begging to be tasted. Thats what women want. Besides beauty is in the eye of the holder and evern then its only skin deep. I can sit here all day and tell you that its whats on the inside that counts but untill you start to believe it its not going to matter what i say. I don't think im attractive at all belive me but im not going to go off and kill myself. There is still to much life left for me to live to give up like that. No one honestly in the depths of their soul thinks their perfect. Don't be another stupid statistics if you give up what hope do the rest have? If you think there is a problem with your looks go fix it. There are all kind of treatments and programs out there focused souly on beauty. Hold strong and save some money and before you know it you'll end up like brad pitt and maybe one day i'll look like angelina jolie. Give your head up and don't let anyone or anything that stupid influence your decisions.
2006-11-26 14:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by mcshankel04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think the highest risk for suicide are older white men who have recently retired, because they don't know how to define themselves outside of work. But that's not what you're asking.
OK, let's see, high sex drive (I'm guessing), coupled with very high brainpower (Stanford), high ambition (Stanford again) and a lot of pressure (I'll stop with the parentheses). None of this means that you'll NEVER get laid: you will. But it does mean that you need to work on the way you think. Your thoughts are Global and Pervasive, meaning that you think that it's always going to be this way, and that it's going to stay bad. It won't. Try a book by M. Seligman, MD called Learned Optimism. It will help.
Stanford also offers free counseling for students: you could really, really benefit. You might also try group counseling, where you work on your personality in a safe environment. You would have the opportunity to get to know women and have them tell you what works and what doesn't.
Good luck, I'm rooting for you.
2006-11-27 04:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of the many things I can't stand about our society is the "need" for women to have men and men to have women or the same sexes to be complete. Where in the wide world did this come from that all humans have to have someone in their lives to "feel complete or normal or in the in crowd"?
If it is meant to be you'll find someone someday. In the meantime learn to accept and love you for you. You don't have to have another person in your life to tell you these things. You are young yet, you are still exploring your world. Don't worry about what other people are telling you for they don't know jack crap about anything! There are thousands of people out there who doesn't have a girl friend or a boy friend and they are still competent and successful people. In this day and age you'd be better off single. I am. I am not married or have a boy friend and I am more happier that way. Sure it can get lonely sometimes, but that is when you find something to do to occupy your time. Discover your talents, everyone has them. Discover your abilities in life, reach out to those who are hurting and lend a friendly ear. Find a job that you are interested in.
As for a medicine to curve your sex drive, I'm sure there is such a thing, but why torture your body for something that you can control on your own? It's all a matter of redirecting or re-focusing your mind on other things besides sex. It's all up to you. We each have choices in this life...we can either sink or swim...it's all up to you!
Good luck and I hope you feel better soon!
2006-11-26 23:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lyndee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel miserable and lonely 14 years ago, but thank God I found the true peace and happyness in His Love, and the wisdom to understand that we´re not the result of a chance evolution but part of God´s wonderful creation. According to the Gospel some of us are to remain single to serve the Lord in a special way.
2006-11-26 22:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by sword 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off no one ever self destructed from not having sex, and when the time is right the right person will come along. Kids who are bullied get very depressed, and who wouldn't. So hang tough and live life to the fullest.
2006-11-26 22:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, whether he wants to have a girlfriend or not. only really ugly and in need guys commit suicide.
2006-11-26 22:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Isaac624 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋