I write small concerned emails to someone who i know reads email each and every day. Used to write every day. Now only writes back every 3rd time and it is so hurtful i just feel like crying because i know he checks every day am and pm. why do people chose to hurt others in these so called subtle ways????What does it mean when they dont write back to each one??they are making you feel like an insect or something??reminds me of toni braxton song how could an angel break my heart??Please help and give your suggestions on what to do??
2006-11-26 13:42:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
sorry should have explained..i no longer write every day, maybe once every two weeks or so....but still....it is hurtful, so i no longer am writing every day, okay, if you could please modify your responses to this thank you
2006-11-26 13:56:31 · update #1
People get busy, kiddo! Sometimes, I have time to read, but not to answer, sometimes my bloody keyboard is broken so I can use te mouse, read, but not answer! Its called LIFE!
2006-11-26 13:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by MotherBear1975 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I 1st got my computer I sent Emails every day to friends & family. I probably drove them crazy. Eventually I tapered off so that now I write only when there is something to write about; e.g. when to get together for coffee, etc.
I didn't expect to receive responses unless I asked a question needing a response.
2006-11-26 21:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and take a breath.
Most people get alot of email every day. It takes time and energy to hold cyber space conversations.
In my opinion, you should back off a bit. Only write once a week.
Your friend may not think anything at all, but then again he may be thinking every day or more is a bit much.
The point is, you need to relax about it.
2006-11-26 21:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how well intentioned your emails are, the receiver apparently is feeling that they are intrusive. If it were me, I would not send daily emails. Send one a week. Back off and give this person a little space. They will either not say anything, or they will make a comment about why you cut back.
2006-11-26 21:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by eilishaa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us have lives. We have jobs, families, friends and other responsibilities. I don't have time to answer every email that comes to me, I answer the ones that require a response.
2006-11-26 21:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Aggie80 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but this makes you sound needy and unbalanced.
If someone wrote me "concerned emails" every day, I wouldn't reply all the time either - why encourage obsessive behaviour?
(Sorry if this sounds harsh)
2006-11-26 21:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Most people find it hard to communicate with e-mails. It is best that you call them. Forget about e-mailing.
2006-11-27 04:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋