I have never had a bf and I am 19 is that normal?

Question

I am not ugly I look alot like my avatar

Answer 1

Normal? If normal is based upon other people's standards then perhaps it might be considered abnormal, however, if you are worried more about what other people think about you or if you rely upon other people's viewpoints or perceptions of you to determine what you should do in life then will be a follower of confusion.

BF (Boy Friend)? Having a boy friend is easy by any means, but young lady should never settle for any boy. Neither should a young lady look for a boy to be considered "Normal" or for security or something else. A young lady must learn to be secure within and self confident in who they are and develop a meaningful purpose in life.

In addition, not having a boy friend does not mean you are undesireable. Now I personally do not like to refer to any person as ugly, but there are certain girls that may have facial features that are considered by many to be ugly facially, however, they still attract many of the opposite sex including attractive ones.

It is important for a young lady to make themselves "approachable" I know of many girls that may to others have unattractive faces, but they have beautiful personalities and they are confident regardless. They accept who they are as individuals and make the best of what they have.

Learning how to become more outgoing and confident with your ownself and having as many conversations with people in general will open many doors to new relationships, but beware of the magicians out there in the marketplace. They will approach you with attractive measures with a hidden agenda. The magician never allows you to see what he or she is really doing, otherwise it would give there trick away.

The same applies to relationships. Its not being cynical, its discernment. Is it normal to not have a boy friend at 19 years of age? It depends upon who is answering the question and there own principles or beliefs. Personally, I think a young lady or person in general should use this period in your life to establish a future career or business. Spend more time educating yourself and learning a variety of skills that will help you for a lifetime.

You will have plenty of time to engage oneself in intimate relationships. Become more of a student of people or relationships. Learn how to read people better and deal with them. All the best!

Answer 2

I don't see why. How old you are has nothing to do with the issues of dating. It all depends on who you date, or who might find you attractive in the mere future. Maybe that lucky person hasn't come along yet to finally discover you.

Keep your eyes open, and eventually it'll all come around. Don't be too dsappointed if it takes a while...because it might, and it might not! Who knows, you could find that special person tomorrow. It's a matter of patience and being ready for possibilities. Even the unexpected.

Answer 3

Don't worry about it. What's "normal" nowadays is actually out of the norm. People start out so young nowadays when they don't even know what a relationship is about. It's better to be older and mature to have your first relationship. You can cherish it better that way.

I had my first boyfriend at 18. And I'm glad I waited that long. Because it made the wait a lot better.

It's okay!! Just have faith in God and realize that He has a plan for you. He will bring you the one in His time. : }

Answer 4

Nothing in life is truely normal. Though it is unusual that a young lady be 19 and had never had a boyfriend is not typical, it does not make you or your relationships abnormal.

Do not worry and do not rush into a relationship just to be in one... when Mr. Right comes along, you will know it.

Just go about life and enjoy it to its fullest, it has a lot to offer, we're just pigs anyway!!!

God Bless;
CJT

Answer 5

Sometimes it's hard to believe that it's normal, but it's actually better to wait. If you need any proof, look at all of the aggravation your friends go through with their girlfriends/boyfriends. Plus, I know most of my high school classmates went away to college just because they had to start new (They had pretty much dated everyone around the neighborhood!) You especially won't regret it when you put your education/job first.

Answer 6

You are 110% totally normal!

Each of us mature at a different rate. Guys are almost always behind gals!

Sometimes, our maturity can scare another away. If you are wise beyond your years, for example, most guys are going to shy away from you.

A lot of guys do not want a challenge.

Personally, I seek others based on their intellect! I like being with smart folk!

IMHO -

The Ol' Sasquatch Ü

Answer 7

Well let's just say that it's not usual. I was 21 before I had a girlfriend. Since then I have had only a few more but I think it's because I'm shy and also very selective.

Answer 8

It's OK if you're OK with it. I once answered a question on here of a girl who asked if it was OK to never have a bf when she was 22. The right guy will come and if you get too desperate, you can always go to Eharmony.com.

Answer 9

It means your smart and got to live your teenage years not being tied to some total doofus. Smart girl. Some people just arent interested until later. My female cousin was like you and now shes married with kids. She didnt date til she was 22. Dont worry about it youre fine.

Answer 10

ive never had a gf and im 19... i think im normal lol. I just have better things to do than try to find a gf. School, video games, friends, they all take priority.

I think it is perfectly normal.