we used to go to school together and used to date. 6 years later---i found him again. and those old feelings are begining to rekindle. im wondering what i should do. should i wait till we become really good friends again before i even tell him or just pretend it isnt happening. what to do?
2006-11-26 13:28:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a big issue one like this. You could go for it, and maybe be happy or ruin the relationship that you have with hime, or a suttle turn down. Or you can be drown in the constaint thought of what could be and what he might think on the topic. so i will offer the best advise i can. That would be to look for any little hint on how he feels about the good old times. Example being somehow you get to talk about your first date and he smiles, or sighes. These are both signes of a memory he cherishes and could potentialy want to experiance again. You should however not really focus on getting the old relationship back, and instead focuse on bettering the friendship. This could lead to something else if he feels the same way. After 6 years you have a lot of catching up to do, so its perfectly natural to maybe go out to luch or a coffee. Even so bold as a movie is an opportune time to see if your friend feels the sme way. You must also know that while he is the same guy, people change and 6 years doesnt seem like alot its enough to change his entire veiws on life. What it boils down to is that you have to feel it out, You will know what the right course to take is when it comes time. Better your frienship and you could just find it happening before you even think about it.
2006-11-26 13:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Quoth the Raven on this one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont pretend its not happening.
you now have 2 choices:
1) tell him how you feel about him
or
2) become really good friends and rekindle what you used to have.
2006-11-26 21:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by MonkeyBrains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why did you break up in the first place? Resolve that issue first. After that, if you are both single, go ahead and ask him out. Remember that if you do make a move, your friendship would be gambled. Make sure it's worth that gamble!
2006-11-26 21:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become good friends, and if he wants more then let him make the first move. If your patiently waiting and he doesnt, then start flirting.
2006-11-26 21:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by greenking5915 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til you become really good friends again, then tell him
2006-11-26 21:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait till you guys are better friends cuz the better you know him the better you will know if you will regret dateing him or not
2006-11-26 21:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by you dont know me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and slip in i remember the days when we were close and ask him do you think i still might have a chance with you.
2006-11-26 21:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by singlebabygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Life, do what ever the heck you want :)
2006-11-26 21:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up and kiss him out of the blue
2006-11-26 21:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by hedwards4@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋