ok me and my gf have been dating for a year and 3 months but we have been having problems we have had sex and we are trying to stop its easy for her but i just cant seem to do it and she does what i ask and i cant get her not to cuz she thinks i am going to leave her if she doesnt even after i tell her i wont but my real question is why cant i stop i want to wait till i marry her but that wont be for another few years but i cant seem to do it why is this
2006-11-26 13:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by you dont know me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can stop if you really want to. If you're having trouble stopping while you're making out, you're going to have to start making some boundaries (ie, nothing past second base). If that doesn't work, maybe you don't really want to stop having sex in the first place but are just feeling guilty about it because you think you ought to wait. I say, just make your decision: either you're going to set some tough boundaries for yourself or you're not, and quit beating yourself up for your choice. Also, if you do choose to keep having sex, make sure you always use protection!
2006-11-26 13:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really sure what the question is.
am i doing this right?
ok me and my gf have been dating for a year and 3 months but we have been having problems we have had sex and we are trying to stop its easy for her but i just cant seem to do it and she does what i ask and i cant get her not to cuz she thinks i am going to leave her if she doesnt even after i tell her i wont but my real question is why cant i stop i want to wait till i marry her but that wont be for another few years but i cant seem to do it why is this
sorry just not sure what you are asking
2006-11-26 13:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody stops having sex for a few years til they get married. Those are way out expectations why would u even think of that??
2006-11-26 13:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you like it. You tried already and you're body will ask for it cause it's good. If you want to wait till you get married then you don't have sex till you get married, but you cannot have sex and then say you'll stop cause you want to wait until you're married cause that's almost impossible. It's easier for women that it is for men, but if you had sex alreay why do you want to wait now. bit stupid don't you think????
2006-11-26 13:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two hands and can masturbate. If you love her and want to wait until marriage to have sex with her, and you want to be faithful to her, start masturbating. Let her know that you can take care of yourself in the sex area and will wait for her.
If you change your mind and want to be with someone else, be honest with her.
2006-11-26 13:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already had sex so you can either suffer and deal with it or have sex
2006-11-26 13:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a guy thats why. guys are addicted to sex
2006-11-26 13:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in your name 'willy'.
2006-11-26 13:30:19 · answer #8 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋