well theres this boy that i really like, im not sure if hes intrested in me, but, i fall for guys way too easy and i have this major thing for him, we talk over msn and stuff and we had great conversations, when we first started talking we flirted and stuff and he hadnt seen me in person yet, just my pictures and he thought that i was really pretty, then the flirting stopped and it kinda sucked, then just recently he saw me around school, and now we kinda just say hi or smile at eachother whenever we pass eachother in the halls cause thats the only time we can see eachother because of how our school works, i wanted to hangout with him outside of school and i brought it up, but everytime i bring it up he doesnt say anything or try and invite me over. when i asked him what he thought of me in person, he said i was "not bad" i dont know what that means, is that good or bad, and now everytime i say hey on msn, he never talks back, im really sad cause i really like him, hes single too.
2006-11-26 13:23:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not into you and he feels awkward now
2006-11-26 13:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realize that is frusterating and confusing. But I can tell you he is more confused that you are. Boys take much longer, if ever, to understand how they feel and be able to communicate it. It's easy to talk on msn but then in person boys loose their confidance and get overwhelmed by emotions. In 6th grade there was a boy I really really liked, we talked on the phone all the time and I knew he liked me too. Then in school, he would call me names in front of his friends. My heart was broken and I cried myself to sleep for weeks. Then I realized that boys just don't understand how to act when they are under pressure from so many people. Even the pressure of one person is enough to make them shut down. MY advice on this boy: Don't push it and just be there for him. If he doesn't come to you then learn to let go and move on. And remember all these experiences are life lessons for you to carry the rest of your life. It's all about learning and experiencing life. It can be sad but remember it's for a greater purpose and you can be happy no matter what.
2006-11-26 13:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by jbirdj623 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the anomity of the internet is appealing. It sounds like this guy liked having an online flirt but is not interested in a relationship. I also think you are putting yourself out there to much. My suggestion, stop emailing/ iming him. It appears that he is not interested and you are probably feeding his ego by continuing to chase after him. Good Luck!!
2006-11-26 13:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by hes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have a little crush on the guy, but he seems not interested - my advice is to just ignore him, maybe he thinks your just too into him... Back off a little and see what happens, if he doesn't respond to that then leave him be and find another hot guy to talk to.. But don't worry you'll find a guy and that "not bad" comment.. well most guys are scared to be upfront about anything, just don't worry about it and be you!! Hope it helps and good luck!
2006-11-26 13:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over him, get a new crush!
he doesnt seem like he's worth your time, you'll find someone new who doesn't think ur "not bad" but who thinks ur GREAT
2006-11-26 13:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by eMteMind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that rough. He should answer you. If you ask me you shouldnt have met him, you should have kept yourself a secret. that is what i would have done, but hey. DO NOT LISTEN TO ME!!!
2006-11-26 13:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How obvious does he have to be to show you that he's not interested? Goodness girl move on....
2006-11-26 13:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. He's just not that into you- that's what "not bad" means.
2006-11-26 13:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋