He is a very nice guy,we both like each other and have the intention of dating. But first he is short,really short for a guy, and second I will go to another country next year and he is staying here, so we will be aparted ever since.So basically this relationship will not go anywhere.
Should I date him?
2006-11-26 13:21:18 · 28 answers · asked by anne 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Besides the height.......short guys are no different from the tall guys!
In fact........some of the nicest people u could meet are either short.........extra tall or extra fat!
.....they always try harder to please n be friendly!
The arrogant......self conceited.........n 'I am being obliging'........r usually the 'good looking' people!
Sure........if he is a nice guy.......date him n find out more about him.............it doesnt hurt u in any way to get to know another friend better............n find out his tastes.......personality....... character & hobbies......
............every time u make a new friend u gain some experience in handling people........u mature a bit more in socializinf........ n u shine thru a bit more in your own bengin friendliness......... human values........& your personality & goodness.
Even if you r leaving......n the relationship is 'going nowhere'..... dont be too sure of that...........may be you end up with a good......trusted.....& honest friend........whom u might call on one day in distress...........n who would run to u to give you a world of comfort that others are too busy to answer!
A friend of mine swears by one of her 'most unlikely' friend......a midget whom she met over 20 years ago.........n who she calls first whenever she finds herself in trouble.........or in a fight with her husband............or with her siblings!
My dear...........a person's height is no measure of the size & warmth of his heart!
2006-11-26 16:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to date ANYONE before you go to this other country? If so, why not date someone you enjoy being with?
There are lots of women that don't like being seen with a short guy, but I've known quite a few successful relationships between short guys and taller women. For some reason, these relationships seem to be truly a love/friendship relationship. Maybe because they've already gotten past someone of the outward taboos and learned to accept each other for who they ARE, not who they appear to be.
In other words - if you're going to date someone anyway, and if you can accept this man for the great guy (though short guy) that he IS, then enjoy!
2006-11-26 13:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by zemirahjoy33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So consider this. Your feelings for him. and His feelings for you.
If you really like him and vice versa, then go for it. Your going to another country is temporary. You amy come back. That is a later part. But for now enjoy the time together. Just draw barriers (You may have safe sex) and and dont get too attached. Clearly explain your intentions. Fate may turn around and you may be together again.
Ask what does he say about it. talk it over and then decide. No bad feelings at all.
Good luck.
2006-11-26 14:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said yourself, "So basically this relationship will not go anywhere." If that's the case what's the point? I mean if all your looking for is some short term thing go right ahead (though you may get bombarded by insults from your peers). Otherwise, I would not recommend dating the guy.
2006-11-26 13:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by krbmeister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, why not? Yeah, you are leaving the country next year...so what? It's not like you two are planning marriage. Hang out, have fun and enjoy each others company. Short or not, he still sounds like a great person to have in your life.
There's always email!!
2006-11-26 13:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay friends with him, maybe date every now and then, but I wouldnt start a serious relationship.. because it will make it so much harder when you have to leave him! I know its hard but try not to get too attached.. cause then you'll just get your heart broken. I'm sure you'll meet a great guy wherever you are moving to next year! :) good luck!
2006-11-26 13:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Naomi F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anne, I do not see any reason for you not to have a date with this young man. If you think you really like him, it shouldn't matter about his height. Roll with it, enjoy him as a friend and, if you choose to write when you leave for another country, that's terrific. maybe, if you correspond long enough, he will be able to come visit you and your family. You just never know!
2006-11-26 13:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..height shouldnt exactly have anything to do with it unless you just really hate short people =\ but..if you really like this guy maybe you should date him and see where things go..if it doesnt work out then you can always ditch him..and just make sure he understands that you wont be here forever.
2006-11-26 13:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to go out with him on a date. Just go out as friends and get to know eachother. Be sure that he knows it as a friend. And tell him your moving away soon. And oneday you can look back on the good times and bad times you had with your friend. I think it will be a learning experance for you boath.
2006-11-26 13:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by james_r_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His height shouldn't matter at all, but you should let him know what he's in for before you two start to date and if he stil wants to keep it up even after you leave for another country, then he's a keeper.
2006-11-26 13:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by vikki0963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋