Is it ok for an 11th grader to go out with a 8th grader we are 3 years or 2 years apart in age
2006-11-26 13:20:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Robbing the cradle are we?
2006-11-26 13:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Demonata 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well in adulthood, its nothing new, but as a student still in school, i would say it is alittle awkward. But if you really want to, then thats ok, but you only have 11th and 12th grade then your off alone in college, and the 8th grader will still be in school waiting to get out of it and graduate. But it really is your decision to, you can date whoever you want, whatever age it may be. Though i would suggest that if you date the 8th grader to keep it on the down low, because people may tease you about dating someone who is probably still in middle school and you in high school, like a teen dating a Pre-teen.
2006-11-26 13:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw leave the lil girl alone ya hear get someone your own age and which one of yall the 8th grader
2006-11-26 13:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by icy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! And I am sure her parents would say the same thing. Just be friends and maybe in a few years when you are both older and have the same feelings, give it a go. Your main focus should be on school son. Good luck to you and your future!
2006-11-26 13:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mamma Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and that i've got been given at the same time whilst he became twelve and that i became 13. Lol we've been at the same time for 5 years now, its no longer a extensive age hollow so it is going to likely be nice. Dont hassle with reference to the grade distinction plenty, its age thats significant.
2016-10-17 14:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out is fine if her parents agree. However, neither one is old enough for sex. It's a really emotional experience for most people and ADULTS have a hard enough time dealing with the ramifications. Just take it slow and be friends.
Good Luck!
2006-11-26 13:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by blackcaligirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in 8th grade you are still very young and not quite matured so you wudn't be ready emotionally. Maybe you should stay friends and wait till you r a little older.
2006-11-26 13:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Imogen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, please please PLEASE look among the (what I'm sure is a large number of) people closer to your age in high school before you start raiding the middle school next door. when you get older, it'll be okay to date people 3 or 4 years younger than you. but at your very young age, think of the really large gap in maturity (both physical and mental) that exists between you and that 8th grader!!!
2006-11-26 13:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 8th grader is not for you, hun. Find someone in your grade.
2006-11-26 13:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u 2 really are in luv go 4 it just dont do anything that will get u 2 in trouble. and whenyou turn 18 just stay really close friends until they become of age
2006-11-26 13:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It may not seem like a huge age gap (and it isnt by much), but to your peers and family it will be. Wait until shes a bit older.
2006-11-26 13:25:46 · answer #11 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋