OK so this guy told me that he wanted to be friends with benifits. ummm...what exactly are the rules??
2006-11-26 13:20:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well its pretty much "fu** buddies" except, you're younger so its less sexual.. pretty much I want in your pants but I don't have the balls for a commitment
2006-11-26 13:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is friends with benefits:
1. There is no relationship involved.
2. You both just have sex and leave. If he is a good friends with benefits, it will work both ways (you can call him for it too). If he is selfish, he will turn you down when you call, but expect you to put out when he calls.
3. You can date whoever you want outside of this and leave any time you want to if you do not like it anymore. Most likely if you are dating, you will have to end the friends with benefits thing.
4. You can hang out as friends, but that depends on the attachment level.
5. Sometimes friends with benefits end up exploring sexually. So he might involve other people that are volunteered to join in, or bring in new experiences, such as positions, toys, etc.
6. Better not get your emotions involved.
7. ALWAYS...ALWAYS use protection...even if you are on the pill. Or you may end up with his child. You do NOT want that. Always say NO to no protection.
2006-11-26 21:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what you need to be asking him. Friends with benefits has the connotation of sex with almost no strings attached. Is there anything about the concept you have a problem with? Does this mean you remain exclusive? Can he still sleep around? What are you chances of getting an STD from his indiscretions? What happens if you accidentally become pregnant with his child? What is he going to do the help you out. Friends with benefits for a guy usually means, " I get everything I want with no commitment and no responsibility." and for the girl it usually means, " I'm getting screwed and it has very little to do with sex."
2006-11-26 21:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he just wants sex. If you are friends now, then that relationship basically stays the same and then you have sex. These things don't usually work out. One person may want more and the other person is unwilling to give it.
Only if you are sure you can handle this type of relationship (ie not care who else he sees, where he goes, etc.) should you do this. Otherwise find a guy who's willing to commit.
2006-11-26 21:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by libra1079 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you pretty much do everything as if you were with the person... only technically your not.. and if he wants to he can go get with other ppl cause theres no commitment... in other words its like a hookup without the heartbreak
2006-11-26 21:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by jenna_71591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rules are..
never fall inlove with each other..
no serious commitment..
and just do the things that can make both of u happy and satisfied.
2006-11-26 21:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rules you do it for fun.....make out have sex what ever, but you have no emotion like it don't mean anything. Just **** buddies.
2006-11-26 21:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by julia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont get jealous or angry with him if he flirts with other girls or starts to date a girl, anything else goes.
2006-11-26 21:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by chad h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants sex with you, without ANY commitment.
2006-11-26 21:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to use you for casual sex.Means he don't love you.
2006-11-26 21:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋