What do women want???????

Question

....in a guy? (and keep things realistic...rich Brad Pitt BS)

Answer 1

This woman wants only three things in a guy.
~ The truth (I hate being lied to)
~ A sense of humour
~ At least average intelligence (you need to have something to talk about)

How hard can that be???

Answer 2

Girls like to have fun! Aways remember that.
The number one thing girls find attractive in guys is confidence! Experience and success build confidence. Women don't want you to give them what you think they want. You think they want you to make her happy so of course you think by actually bending to her every whim is what she wants in a guy. This is completely wrong. You think she wants her bf to be a weak willed, pu55y whipped, butler? H3ll no! She wants a man, an equal, maybe even someone whos dominant, but certainly not weak. You see, girls are shoppers, excellent shoppers! They want to get the best possible deal, the most bang for their buck. So if you just roll over and become her slave, she will say " Hmm, if I subdued this guy so easily, I am definitely selling my self short!" and you will be history. However, if you actually give her resistance, actually make her feel that you can get another, better girl, (without saying that) then she will feel asthough you are a bargin, and a hell of a deal! You must be, right? You don't need her, and that will make her want you bad!

Next thing, be completely aloof about the big things, like politics or lifestyles. But on the little stuff where an actual decision is required, like which movie to see or where to eat, this is where YOU make the decision!

So here's what you should do. You don't have much experience, so you need to pretend you have confidence. The word of the day here is "counterintuitive". That literally means to the opposite of what you think you should do. Its not a black and white situation, there is a lot of gray. The reason this is so confusing is because of the art of flirting. Basicly subtle dirty dancing in public with words. You can figure that one out for yourself. Moving on.
Basicly you want to:
-Stay calm and relaxed
-Be deliberate (What ever you did or are doing is exactly what you wanted to happen, do not listen to critacism)
-Be a gentleman, not a wuss, a gentleman
-Be honest!
-Go slow, take your time in everything you do
-Be brave (not stupid or reckless)
-Don't make a big deal out of it
-Don't be afraid to be bold!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
-Be yourself (in any way that doesn't conflict with these guidelines)

Answer 3

Watch the movie "Meet Joe Black". When Brad Pitt is in the coffee shop... that Is what women want. He says it all. I wish all men would study it. We don't have to have Brad Pitt's beauty or wealth. We are attracted to a man who wants to take care of us. I know all women are different in their wants but most of them that I know want the coffee shop guy in that Movie. It might be unrealistic but it is what we hope for.

Answer 4

1. Honesty.
2. Love
3. Shared joy and pain
4. Care
5. Shared Financial Decision Making
6. Respect.

Answer 5

Women want what they cant have. Because if they have it they abuse it and dont want it anymore and take advantage of the great relationship their in! its just a typical woman thing, some women dont know what their looking for and thats why you need to show them! other women know exactly what their looking for and their the women to look out for! you cant make a list of all the things you want in a guy, because if you do, and you find a guy that meets all the requirements there probably wont be any chemistry between them! or he may still live at home with his mum!! im a woman, and trust me, it will save you ALOT of time if you dont bother asking yourself that question, because after thousands of years on earth men dont know what women want and they dont understand them! and thats the way we like it!!

have a great day!!

Answer 6

Well, this is what I look in a guy:

C oncern
A cceptance
R esponsibility
I ntegrity
N urturing
G iving

Basically, I want a guy who respects me, and accepts me for who I am. He doesn't pressure me to do something that I believe is wrong. He's there for me when I feel sad, or mad... or whatever... He trusts me, and he doesn't go insane just b/c I was talking to other guys.. [seriously that's so annoying]. Also, I prefer guys who share the same values / interests as me.

Answer 7

Women want a man that is honest, reliable, has good communication, and someone who will treat them good. This may sound simple, but I think most women would agree with me when I say that finding all of this seems almost impossible. So, if you can conquer this list I think you will be in good hands.

Answer 8

A guy who is not afraid to go after what he wants, smart, sensitive, a great sense of humor, has respect for women, never boring, lets his lady have her space, when they are together he turns off his cell phone and focuses on what he is doing.

Answer 9

I want a man who will be beside me in everything! One who loves me unconditionally! Who is honest and faithful at the same time! Some one who is not afraid to stand up to me when I am dishing it out and one who will put his arms around me not only when I need him too! Who kisses me good night and good morning! One who is proud of who he is and who I am!
One who takes out the trash with out asking me to first! LOL
Most of all one who never leaves something turned on at home! ( ME not the lights or the stove ) LOL!
To make it simple ----
RESPECTFUL, HONESTY, and FAITHFULNESS and also TRUST!
This is really what it all comes down too!

Answer 10

A guy within 6 years of my age, younger or older, either way, tall, nice teeth, good hygiene, nice smile, porportioned body, strong, polite, faithful, loving, kind, passionate, communicative,fun, good sense of humor, appreciative. self supporting, if he has children already he must be a good father to them.