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Hey, me and my g/f broke up about 3 weeks ago, but we are such good friends that it's hard for us not to be in eachothers lives.. She needs me to be there as a friend for her, and she doesn't want the responsibility of being a girlfriend. I still love her and try to hide my feelings and just act as a friend. If it was up to me I'd still like to be going out, but if all she wants is a friend in me i want to be able to be that... Any ideas on how to handle this, or any advice.. thanks

2006-11-26 13:16:42 · 6 answers · asked by Moto 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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let her know she can always talk to you about anything, that you still care about her.

2006-11-26 13:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0 0

Get into another relationship. The tough part about staying friends after a break up is that you miss the closer intimacies like kissing, constant hugging, hand-holding, and sex (if you got that far) and its a constant battle to remind yourself that you can't do that anymore now that you're back to being "Just Friends".

If you get into a new relationship you'll have someone to kiss, hug, hand-hold, etc. and you'll be able to be a better friend to your Ex without the pressure of trying to avoid accidental displays affection. Make sure that your new girlfriend knows that your on good terms with your Ex and that you plan to stay friends with her. If you're honest with your new girlfriend and build a trust between you two then she should be understanding and not jealous about your friendship with your Ex.

2006-11-26 21:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rukh 6 · 0 0

ok, its difficult but use your time to explore what you really want and how you want to spend your time. There will be times in your life when there is no one special and those are the times for personal growth and a time to be "selfish". Don't hide your feelings for her, accept the fact that she is not in the same place as you and move forward and focus on the other areas of your life. Friends are very important so stay in touch with her but at the same time keep your options open to meeting someone new.

2006-11-26 21:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Zena 5 · 0 0

It sounds like its going to be a rough friendship for you, I think she might be using you (in a nice way)

If you keep seeing her you will never get over her and I dont think that she will ever take you back, I think you should tell her that it is going to be too hard for you to be friends and end the relationship.

You dont want to be strung along forever you need to move on with your life and find someone else!

2006-11-26 21:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by adnie25 2 · 0 0

tell her you still care about her but you are willing to keep the friendship. You should start seeing other girls. they might help you forget about her. if she doesn't want you then you should try findding someone who does want you. you'll find someone better. like they say there's plenty of fish in the sea.

2006-11-26 21:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 0 0

NO!

2006-11-26 21:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 · 0 0

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