ok this is probably a bit wierd for some of you peeps but i dated a guy from the net. i talked to him on the phone heaps. he was really great. really.. respectful is the word i think. then i met up with him.. and his attitude kinda changed, instead of calling and saying hey, hed say hey sexy legs, and he said he lusted after me etc. etc. oh hes 18 by the way. should i have been worried?
2006-11-26 13:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope he's just attracted to you and wanted to let you know it.Try giving it back to him and if he don't like it than he'll stop or get defensive.I'd just go with it he could call you alot worse believe me.And to all the man haters no it's not creepy.
2006-11-26 13:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes so long to get to know someone well that these internet hookups can give you a false sense of hope. Everyone is on their best behavior at first, especially when they can hide behind a keyboard or a phone receiver. It's when you *experience* the person that you find out if they're truely who they represent themselves to be. Does he open the door for you when possible? How does he treat the others in public (people in the drive-through, supermarket checkers, cleaning ladies, etc?) If he loses his manners instantly after meeting you in person, yes -- I'd be worried. Give him a few years, and maybe he'll grow up!
2006-11-26 13:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Drizzt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is only after one thing.
He is stringing you along on the net and he can do ti well because you can see him and he can be whatever kind of person he likes, and then when you meet him he cant hide his real self and thats when his true intentions come out.
No one talks to a girl like that if he has respect for them.. Id probably be worried that he doesnt kidnap you or something, it does happen.
2006-11-26 13:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by adnie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do for the past, so focus on right now. Do you like the way he is treating you? It doesn't sound like it. It seems his true colors are coming out. If you are feeling funny in the tummy because of the way he is acting, listen to yourself. It sounds like he is not what you want. You owe him nothing. You can end it any time you choose.
2006-11-26 13:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should have been worried, 18 and already a pervert.
2006-11-26 13:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have been worried. Sounds like he is just looking for sex. Don't talk to him anymore.
2006-11-26 13:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, the person you met from the internet didn't turn out to be the person you thought he was...DUH. I don't think you should be "worried" I think you should be less gullible.
2006-11-26 13:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
spend more time with him to see if you wanna be with him
2006-11-26 13:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by girly_down_n_south 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋