There is this guy who I have liked for 3 years, and there is this other I just started liking..... the one i LOVE for 3 yrs hazn't made a move yet, but the new has already made alot!! I dont know if I should just let go the guy I really love that hasnt done anything 4 the guy that i like that has made MANY moves... the thing is that I cant imagine letting this guy go, I LOVE HIM 2 MUCH!!!
2006-11-26 13:08:00 · 29 answers · asked by ♥Sweetie♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
heck...why not? you do not have a commitment to Mr. 3-year, so why not take a chance with Mr. New-guy? you might find him to be even better then Mr. 3-year! start out dating casually, and if things are going well, stick with it. you will be glad that you went for it instead of waiting around for Mr. 3-year.
2006-11-26 13:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Val 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have the guy that you love that has not made a move, you have a hope. If he has given you no indication of wanting a relationship with you then you are letting precious time slip away. If you have not told guy #1 how you feel now is the time. If he knows how you feel and does not feel the same way then you really need to date other people. You are missing out on a lot.
2006-11-26 13:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by ladyc 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHY DONT YOU TRY MAKING A MOVE FOR A CHANGE? Especially to the one you love whom you said hasnt made a move. Try seeing his side of things. Maybe he's shy or timid. More importantly you LOVE him. So it should be YOU making a move on him to let him know how you feel. WHAT? Afraid of rejection? Lol, Rejection is a part of life and if he does not like, love or want you, you have another man in the wings waiting who at this point looks to try to capture your heart. So make a move with the one you love and see what happens. If it doesnt work out, life goes on. If it does, then it was meant to be. :)
2006-11-26 13:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love him 2 MUCH, why dont u do something? it doesnt always have to be a guy, who makes the move. Because if u wait for that guy u love to make a move, u can wait a few more years. Also, if he hasnt made a move, maybe cause he doesnt love u? go for the other guy, or u will grow old on ur own.
2006-11-26 13:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
look, my friend had the same problem almost. well, it turns out it was a waste of her time loving that guy for that long. because even though he found out she lvoed him, he didn't like her. its not worth it, hun. u gotta try to let him go, even if its hard. u shud give the poor "new" guy a chance and try it out. or u can wait and wen u get over the love of 3 yaers, start making a move on the newer guy. best of luck!
2006-11-26 13:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by PreTty in PiNk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your hear it wont ever let you down!!!! maybe you should talk to this guy that you have LOVED for the last 3 years. tell him how you feel about him...and if he dont feel the same way about you then move on. it might be hard but have you ever heard of the saying if you love him let him go? well this is kinds like that!!!!
2006-11-26 13:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by little_attractive_kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you feel torn between two lovers but don't worry...you sound young and you should be enjoying each and every relationship without committing to one serious one so young in life. You say LOVE...but how do you really know if you two have never dated? Give the second guy a try, what have you got lose? Another motto: If it is love, set it free, if it comes back it always was; if it doesn't it never was. Good luck and enjoy life. But please be responsible and always respect yourself.
2006-11-26 13:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mamma Mia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait, so you like two guys, and you cant tell if you should let one go . . . hey, most people say out with the old, and in with the new, but i say do whatever you think is better. If you think the new guy will appriciate you more, and love you more, then go with him, and if i were you, i would tell the other guy that he either needs to get over himself, and appriciate you more, or you will go out with new incomers. It might put him back into shape if he still loves you, but after that tell him that he has one chance, and if he does what he did before i say dump him . . . the new guy is in the building!!!
2006-11-26 13:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know what you feel, i have loved one of my best friends for 5 years and i cant imagine with her in my life, i said you should tell your freind (3 year guy) how you feel about him and you make the move because sometimes the guy is too shy to so the girl has to.
2006-11-26 13:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him then dont let him go. talk to him about this new guy and see if he feels the same way about u that u do about him. if he doesnt then u can go from there, but u also need to see if it is truely love or if it is just lust.
With Love from God, Joshwea, and best of luck
2006-11-26 13:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by moNAT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋