alot of guys think im hott,but they wont ask me out,is this because ive never had a bf?
2006-11-26 12:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by morganpaige. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know they think you're hot? If they think so, I'm sure they will ask you out if you are old enough to go out. Don't worry, you'll have many boyfriends.
2006-11-26 12:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are wary of (and intimidate by) "hot chicks" for several reasons:
1) Higher Maintenence - Hot chicks attract more guys, hence more competition. Any guy that enters a relationship with a hot chick has to go out of his way to do more things and spend more money on top of the usual stuff girls demand.
2) Higher Sexual Frustration - Guys want sex in their relationships and get sexually frustrated waiting for the girl to make up her mind. It only gets worse the hotter the girl is. If you're starving and you had the choice between a cheese sandwich and a 3-course meal, which would you want more?
3) Crappier Attidute - Hot chicks that know they're hot use their looks to manipulate guys. They never make a real effort in the relationship because there's always other guys around.
4) Airhead in Disguise - Guys are heavily distracted by looks, the hotter the girl is the harder it is for guys to notice she's dumber than a rock, has no real skills, and has been getting by on her looks from guys willing to pay for all her stuff, because she's hot.
These are the basic reasons guys tend to avoid hot chicks, but if she has a good personality and she's smart, witty, kind, affectionate, and considerate then the guy will feel more confident making a move.
It's very possible you're putting out these negative vibes and that's why none of the guys have asked you out.
2006-11-26 21:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rukh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really are hot, then you may intimidate guys with your beauty. Maybe guys don't think they have a shot. If you have a personality that is abrasive or weird, that may also deter guys. As far as you never having a bf, if you talk about that, then maybe you are overlooked by guys just looking for a quick lay. It also makes me think that you're really young, so I wouldn't worry too much about this issue right now.
2006-11-26 20:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take some initiative and ask the guys out. Quit waiting around. This is 2006 for Christ sake.
2006-11-26 20:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you're quite taken with yourself, and guys don't like a girl who thinks she's all that, especially when she may not be. Try adjusting your personality.
2006-11-26 20:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got the same problem hehe - be yourself, there is no such thing as 'normal'. you are different, just like everybody else. a guy will ask you, just don't stress out over it, and flirt! show them that u rae interested, and 99.9% of the time, the guy will ask you
2006-11-26 20:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that they want a girl that's nice, not just hott. u might be a *****..i don't know.
2006-11-26 20:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by PinkPanther 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably because they are afraid you might reject them.
maybe just let it be known that you are not snobby and say hello to people and be friendly towards them.
2006-11-26 20:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo. that's wierd... i wonder too... mayb ur personality but i guess ur kind.. =)
2006-11-26 20:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥Jabbawockeez♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is bcoz of your personality.
2006-11-26 20:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋