ok, this guy i like is going to ask me out,i kno 4 a fact,and i really like him.im 12 and i have never had a boyfriend be4.how do i tell my mom?
2006-11-26 12:05:56 · 27 answers · asked by morganpaige. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went through this when I was 9. Me and my mom have always been tight but I said, "Mom hey you have to promise not to be mad but at least I am telling you. I got my first boyfriend and I am so happy and I would really like your support!!" My mom was happy for me and supported me in every decision and I wish you the best. Your mom should be happy for you if you are happy with yourself. Good luck I hope you get the Guy.
2006-11-26 12:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, im 12 too. I had my first boyfriend when i was 11 in 5th grade, but i knew i was wayyyy to young to tell my mom i had a boyfriend, so i never told her. Im not a person who is very close to here mom. So when your planing to tell your mom that you have a boyfriend ask her first "mom, at what age do yoo think i can have a boyfreind?" if she says an older age thatn what you are now then you have to make a decison... have a boyfrreind ans not tell your mom or no boyfriend at all.... i hope i helped bye! :)
2006-11-26 12:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by panda2295 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morgan, when I was 12 (in like 1996) NOBODY I knew had boyfriends or girlfriends......only crushes. Why don't you just focus on being known as FRIENDS and nothing more? Your mom will probably freak out if you call him your BF. BUT, I bet you won't even have to tell her, she will know when she realizes you are on the phone more and what not.
2006-11-26 12:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your mom have a good understanding then just tell her that a guy likes you and you like him. And that you know for a fact that he is going to ask you out and ask your mom what you should do if you dont have a good understanding with your mom then just dont tell her keep it on the DL.
2006-11-26 12:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he actually asks you out, then the day he does it and you're excited go straight to your mom. When you tell her, just be lik: Mom, guess who asked me out today, _(insert name here)_ and then go, and guess who said yes!! This is so cool, i havent even told my friends yet!! She'll feel good knowing that you put her in front of your friends, even though you most likely havent. She's more likely to support you having a bf if you make her feel like you wanted to tell her and not that you had to tell her. So, good luck telling her, i hope she is the mom that will take the news well!
2006-11-26 12:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your mom. U might have to have someone older go with u on the date but it wont be too bad. Just be honest and let your mom know what is going on and good luck. U will be scared but have some fun. Go to the movies or go out to eat. Let your mom know that u can be trusted.
2006-11-26 12:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by good4u06@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody could desire to decide you and for this reason you save asserting that. yet to be trustworthy with you , everyone that engages in sexual intercourse could desire to a minimum of ascertain that the guy does not have a form of a sexual ailment first. it extremely is deadly and the virus can unfold from one guy or woman to the subsequent. additionally in case you desire to pursue it any further you're able to desire to tell your mom and likewise ask her to get you to a doctor using fact something could have occurred on your vagina in the time of intercourse which you're actually not conscious of and that's detrimental on your coronary heart and concepts as nicely. additionally you elect a discern to become in contact so as which you would be able to get on delivery administration , you could not get it with out discern giving consent or perhaps get an entire examination from a doctor till you get that consent. Your mom is your superb recommend on issues like this , so have faith her and ask her that can assist you. yet next time , please think of formerly you in basic terms react.
2016-12-29 13:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK be calm first,it is a very normally thing and it is a part of life,don't forget that your mother was young too, go and just tell her,but you will hear a lot of advice including do this and don't do this.Be patient and listen her and I can advice exactly do what she says.It is all for your goodness.
2006-11-26 12:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by _justwait_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age, I'm almost positive your mom won't react too negatively. Sure, she'll ask you what he's like, if she's never met him..
Well, bottom line is, don't be afraid of telling her. It's not something to keep secret, I'm sure she'll be happy for you.
Good luck!
CR
2006-11-26 12:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by Cody R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ur right my age i tell everything to my mother well if had a boyfriend that onething i wouldt tell her but if u what to tell her them ask her when she gat her boyfriend then if she got her at or somewere around ur age tell her if u could have a boyfriend like she did
WELL GIRL GOOD LUCK im relly happy i kw someone that my age in yahoo i never met a girl that was
like me before
2006-11-26 12:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by ha ha ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋