What is up with the guy who doesn't want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you?
2006-11-26 11:37:29 · 28 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
issues!
2006-11-26 11:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by onottopilot 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That guy... that guy isn't really a full fledge guy. That is a part of our childhood that lurks inside of us. It mostly comes from insecurity, selfishness and immaturity.
Campare the baby who cries... they are demanding immediate attention and really it is the an ultimate act of selfishness. Likewise a guy wants you or someone when it is conveinent for them(selfish) and will lash out in some way when you are with someone else(immature). In the end demanding that you get back together when he probably will follow the same path of not wanting you down the road again(security)!
2006-11-27 15:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron C. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOCKS whats up with that..sounds like you need to take a step back and reassess your life and what kind of guys your going after...
man this guy is insecure, has mental problems, and has a weird jealousy thing going one for you...get away from him as fast as you can.. before it gets any weirder...
yes I know a lot of guys and girls too, do this...they don't really want you, but they do not want you with any one else..because they are crazy and a freak..run..keep going do not look back...
find yourself a real nice wholesome guy..some one who has gone through college and has a great job and who is looking to continue his education..that's the guy for you...
smile
good luck
2006-11-28 17:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity
2006-11-26 19:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mental
2006-11-26 19:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by mickeys12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are naturally possessive and although he doesn't want you, he doesn't want anyone else to have you. It's possession, ego and jealousy all wrapped in one. If us guys don't learn how to control it, we can cause a lot of heartache for women.
2006-11-26 19:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by SoCal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol they want you when someone else wants you but when no one does he doesn't its all in the ego just go out with many guys he'll get over it and cut all connection you have to much baggage with the guy no calls, no hi, no sitting next to each other
2006-11-26 19:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make sense and borders on immature... Like the little kid with 50 toys out and won't let little Billy play with one of them even though he has no intention on playing with it himself... I guess it's a hang over from English class... Possessive Past Tense...
2006-11-27 08:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy! get away as soon as possible. Tell everyone you know about the situation so if anything goes down they will know whats up.
2006-11-26 19:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a bit of a narcissist to me. Best to stay away from him.
2006-11-26 19:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is confused on where he wants to be he wants you that is why he get jealous or mean when other guys check you out
2006-11-26 19:41:03 · answer #11 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋