god, im confused?

Question

hi everyone, this is not a perverted question, this is true and im looking for serious answers

me and my girlfriend are both 13. she was at her uncle's house in VA(we live in NJ) for thanksgiving and she just got back today. when she was at her uncles house, she said"brb, goin to the bathroom"
i said"have fun" which i said just jokin around like usual.
she came back and said"i had fun, and i was thinkin about you ;-)"
"i asked her if she was serious and she said yes. i obviously knew what she meant. joking around again, i asked if next time, i could do it for her. she said yea sure. then she asked if she could do the same thing(kinda) to me. i said yea sure. i dont know if she expects to do it or not, but she has done it before with her ex boyfriend(and no, shes not a whore, shes only been with 2 guys)
i was just wonderin if i should do it or not. i know she would if i asked, she gets kinda horny sometimes. but if i did, what would the consequences be?please dont delete! Thanks!

trust me, i know shes a virgin, and i am the second guy she was with

Answer 1

WOW 13 and already been with 2 guys.....this world sure has changed....I would wait and see what happens...if it leads up to it then it does...if not then it dont_

Answer 2

If you are asking this question, your really not ready. I know kids your age are having sex. I work with children your age and older. Also have my own,I try to be open and honest with my kids as well as the ones I work with. However you didn't say whether you had feelings for this girl.You should be asking yourself if you want to have sex with her this is about you as well not just her. Don't do it because she is horny,or because you want to be cool. You also have to remember that this is a very huge step in your life. Are you ready? Do you have a good relationship with your parents? If not a mentor is good to have when important issues like this come up.

You have alot to think about protection is very important is she on the pill? at 13 I don't think so. She could get pregnant at 13 years old are you ready for that responsibility? You will have to deal with fathering a child for the rest of your life.

Really hun I'm not trying to scare you just being honest with you. But these are things you really need to think about. You still a kid and I know your hormones are racing,but having sex is not only about the act,you have remember what could be the outcome.

Your a kid be a kid as long as you can don't jump into anything your not ready for because she wants too. From reading your question you don't seem ready nor educated regarding this subject to me. So don't let anyone talk you into something your not ready for, follow your gut you know whats right and wrong.

BTW: I think you did the right thing by seeking for advice...Your a smart kid

Answer 3

Jesus is the two the Son of God and God, attempt to understand as I clarify under: God is ONE BEING, produced from 3 persons. it particularly is observed as "The Trinity". God is the daddy, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. those 3 are all One God. yet... the daddy isn't the Son, neither is the Son the Holy Spirit, neither is the Holy Spirit the daddy, and so on. it particularly is taken under consideration necessary understand the Triune Nature of God, which back is observed as the TRINITY. warning: Idiots will make it sound like the Trinity is 3 Gods, yet that's no longer authentic. God is One God, made up of three persons.

Answer 4

OMFG NO!!!! ur only 13, wow. no, ur only 13, and there are so many things that can go wrong. well i'm not telling u not to do it, just that right now, no, ok wait until u are at least 15 or 16, for god's sake ur not even in HS yet

Answer 5

I know you don't want to here this.....
but thirteen is just toooooo young to start.
Having a sexual relationship is one of those things
that you just can't know how you will feel, until after
you've done it...and that's not always good.
Don't listen to those people who say jump right in...
Cause their not you!! Your the one that has to live with it.
It is a real responsibility...Birth Control, etc. STD
Not to mention how your parents will feel when they find out.
And they always do...Look before you leap... Good Luck

Answer 6

First of all she had 2 guys, before you decide to give up your precious jewels please find out as much as you can about her sexual history. You dont want to take the chance of sleeping with her and having an STD. Its hard out there and your never going know her status. You are going to do what you want to do. But do you honestly know why you want to have sex and what are the consequences.

Answer 7

Wow. You are only thirteen? You definately have to wait. And yes, if she has already been with 2 guys at age 13, then there is some whorish aspect. SLOW DOWN!!!!!

Answer 8

NO DON'T DO IT. the only thing ya'll should be doing is studying and not each other y'all just got potty trained only 10 11 years ago master wiping off the toilet first.

Answer 9

Dont do it that ia so dumb only 13 two guys im 19 i havent been with any body


DONT DO IT

Answer 10

hey, if you want to do it, by all means, do it.
but if you guys take it farther, dont get her pregnant. she will kill you. i know if that happened to me, i would kill the guy who did it to me. if you want to, go ask her if she wants to and if she says yes, just be careful. you probably wont end up with her for the rest of your life, but why wait till marriage? unless it goes against your religion, do it.
i wouldnt mind having a guy do that to me. good luck with it

JUST DONT GET HER PREGNANT!
:P