My boyfrind of one year isnt very caring, twords anyone but himself and his car what should i do.?

Answer 1

tell him about that and that hurts u and he should understand that
if he didnt then ignore him

Answer 2

i think the first thing you should do is step back from the emotional aspect of the relationship for a day or two . while your doing that write down why you think this of the boyfriend . write this in such a way that there would be examples of proof of your feelings . do that on day one. on day two write down all the things you can think of that would show proof that he does care about you and others.
once you have completed that make a choice based on your thoughts once you have looked over each days papers .
the idea that one sheet would have more proof of caring and the other less or reversed should not carry sufficient weight for a decision to be made either way but instead the papers will allow you to see the relationship in a more analytical way . this new way of seeing the relationship along with your emotional thoughts will i think lead you toward a choice in the matter.
the choice you make could be anything stay for a time and then review this or go all out and give your everything to make it work or leave. along with any other option you feel would be best for you and him.
i hope this helps you in some way and i hope that if it is the case that your boyfriend really does not care about anyone but himself he learns this no sooner then society figures out that such thinking is that of a sociopath .

Answer 3

Maybe you you should ask yourself if something has changed within the relationship. Does he treat you like he did a year ago or does he ignore you 100%? Do his friends matter more than you? Are you second fiddle?

If you answered yes to any of these it may be time to have a serious look within yourself to see if you really want to continue the relationship with him or to start a new with someone who will give you the respect you deserve.

Answer 4

If he's not caring now, he won't be until he decides to be. Are you willing to wait for him to do this because if you are what if it never happens? The best thing that you can do for him, is care enough about him to let him and his car go up the road.

Answer 5

I stayed with someone like this for 15 years and now he is dumping me (I have his two children). The selfishness doesn't stop. Stick to your family and close friends. You'll eventually find someone nice.

Answer 6

I think first of all if you're that unhappy, you should break off the relationship.

And 2nd of all, you should ask yourself why you're in a relationship with such an uncaring person to begin with.

Answer 7

man my bf is the same and also twards his friends more that objects though but i have been talking to this other guy and i am eventialy going to leave my bf for this other guy cause he helped me to realize the better things and people in life so maybe either talk to him to see him he will change or move on i believe in you

Answer 8

Tell him he needs to start caring and respecting you more or you are going to leave him with nothing but his car.

Answer 9

It's called narcissism, as hard as it sounds, it seems like you need someone more caring, so you'll have to let him go and find someone who cares for YOU!

Answer 10

Buh bye -- he'll only get worse so unless you can deal with it now and wish to continue dealing with it later? I'd tend to tell him good bye.

Answer 11

if after 1yr he still bout none but his car and himslef?you can't change him.if you did change him then you are asking for disaster its not gonna be long before he goes back to himcelf and his car