I have this friend that goes to my school and weve been friends for a while now and i kinda like her brother.Before we were really good friends and now its more like when we see eachother we just say hi.So do you think its allright?For girls what would you thik if youre friend likes your borther...?Thanks!
2006-11-26 11:32:35 · 17 answers · asked by luvboys1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When i say that we were really good friends im talking about the sister
2006-11-26 11:37:05 · update #1
yes
2006-11-26 11:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fine, it's simply human nature. It's a very awkward situation, and I'm in it too. I'm going out with one of my friend's brothers, and I spend a lot more time with him than I ever did with her. It just happened, and I'm glad it did. Once the initial "oh my god, I'm dating her brother" goes away, it's not too bad since we all know each other and get along okay. It still makes me feel awkward when I'm around his sister though, since we used to be better friends then we are now. It's tough when you feel like you're stuck in the middle, but worth it if he's really the guy for you.
2006-11-26 11:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by volcania 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not really a morally wrong thing, but it is kinda like a guy dating his friends sister....sensitive grounds, and i would totally see how your friend feels way before even thinking about it, and i would only do it if you KNOW it'll be a forever thing, or you think it could be, bc once u n him ar eon the outs she will feel obligated to pick sides, bc she will be in the middle on eway or another
2006-11-26 12:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of what you are looking for in a man. Then play one off against the other through a series of tests and see who wins. You could have them make a bet about running a long distance and getting a date with you if one wins. Men like to work out and stuff like that for women. It proves their manhood.
2006-11-26 11:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say its okay. Many of my friends tried to date my brother. It bothered me at first but as I grew older, it didnt matter all that much. But beware that if your friend and her brother are close friends, don't try to grab all the attention and allow them to hang out together by themselves. You do not want to be the center of attention. Be good with the sister and she will gladly accept you. Also don't date behind her back. Ask her if she would mind because it shows that you respect the friendship you once had with her.
2006-11-26 11:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by 112 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. How old are you? My best friend in high school had a brother a year younger than me (she was a year older than me). We all hung out a lot. Her bro and I both were in relationships but I had always secretly wondered what it would be like to date him, but i didnt really LIKE him liek that at the time. It was more of just a random thought but didnt have any meaning...Anyway, I graduated, went off to college, then I didnt talk to them for like a year because they were in another town. I finally met up with them that year and ended up dating the brother. It was so weird. I saw them and hung out and then later that night we were making out and...stuff...it was crazy. needlesstosay, 2 years later, we are still together (after a few months he finished school and moved to my town). My best friend (his sister) had always encouraged him to ask me out in HS (i found this out AFTER we were dating!). when we actually got together, she encouraged it, but then she got weird about it and stuff. I didnt really talk to her much anymore anyway and I didnt really consider her my best friend since we hadnt kept in touch really. basically, she treated me like sh*t for awhile (however, she has a tendency to do that to people anyway-just NEVER ME before!) but got over it and now shes happy about us again. basically, i wouldnt ruin a friendship over a guy. ask your friend about it first. stuff might be weird. and depending on your age, it could be different. also, think about this...its your best friend, you probably tell her everything...would you feel comfortable talking to your best friend about stuff between her brother and you? fights, intimacy, etc...
2006-11-26 13:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Amy*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nothings wrong with that but there may be some trouble if u hurt his feelings so u may want to rethink getting into a relationship with ur bestfriends brother u may loose her,is he worth it?
2006-11-26 11:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I guess its alright, but I know some situations were friends got in fights over this, so if its your really good friend I guess she'll understand, but if its just an eh...friend then I don't know, gotta choose either your friend or her brother.
2006-11-26 11:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have a brother, so if one of my friends liked my brother I wouldn't have a problem with it as long as it didn't ruin our friendship.
2006-11-26 11:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's fine. you even have an excuse to see him. get closer to your friend again to you can hang out with her brother too.
my friend's brother likes me. my friend says he does but he always turns red and says no when she tells me he does. even tho hes younger i think its ok
2006-11-26 11:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by your wonderwall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋