Short version (all my Q's are about this so if you want details, help yourselves): We dated. Things start hot, she goes distant, run hot and cold, finally she says she needs to be by herself but then texts me all the time. I have given her space, saw her today, and we were still flirty, gave me a goodbye kiss. Took it for what it was worth. She just texted me and said, "I had fun" What response is appropriate to convey so did I, I want to see her again, but I don't want to be just her friend? Should I even respond at all? She knows what I want (her) but she won't decide what she wants from us if that helps at all.
2006-11-26 11:31:38 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she might want the comfort saying she is dating someone but not really wanting to put any effort into it or prefers to keep dudes at arms length. That is just my assumption - take it for what it is worth.
2006-11-26 11:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by just another chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you say that she already knows that you want her, does this mean that you've told her that? bcoz most times girls will do lots of flirty and girlfriend type things to a guy and not realize that the guy has fallen for her yet? so if you've told her already, just ask her? so how do you feel for me? then just sweet talk her through the whole situation. the fact only remains that if she doesn't like you, well she'll let you know..if she truly is your friend she won't play you for a fool. that's it.
2006-11-26 19:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by pnaiigurl21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, sometimes it works and some times it doesn't. She just may be the type that likes to flirt and have fun and that is OK for her but you have just got to accept that. You can continue to take her out and flirt, feed her, talk with her, text with her but it will be nothing more than that unless she wants it to be.
Find a girl that wants more of what you have to give.
Best of luck
2006-11-26 19:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore here and don't respond. That will make her more interested. Women like a challenge and if you are not too eager she will work harder to peak your intrest. It is sad that we have to play these games but that is one of the quickest ways to make her want you.
2006-11-26 19:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by cincin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's only interested in you when it's convenient for her. My advice - don't respond at all. Let her go and find someone who really wants you.
2006-11-26 19:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would text her back I had fun too hope we can do it again_
2006-11-26 19:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her and see if she chases you
2006-11-26 19:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋