My brother-in-law (my sis's husb.) asked my brother advice on his curiousity of same sex relationships. FYI:my brother is gay. He told my brother that he is turned on looking at gay porn sites. My brother told him to talk to his wife about how he was feeling and was told to mind his own damn business and not to interfere with his marriage. My brotherinlaw even had the nerve to ask my brother about making connections to 'try it out'. What the F is his problem? Anyways, my dilemna is that my brother is too chicken to tell my sister and my family told me to leave it alone because they have 2 kids and who will help her raise the kids. He's borrowed money from my cousin's husband and has not returned any of it. If I approach my sis, she will accuse me of ruining her life & tell me to mind my business. She would blame me for not wanting her happy especially since my marriage didn't work out either. I'm going home for Christmas & I don't want to pretend I like him. What do I do?
2006-11-26 11:31:05 · 5 answers · asked by wasabi68girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Right now, leave it alone...maybe after the holidays try talking to your sister with the gay brother to back up what you say...
2006-11-26 11:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister probably already knows if he is talking openly with your brother, he is talking with other people too. Don't get in her face, she will talk to you when she is ready. As for your BIL, be polite but not friendly and you'll be fine
2006-11-26 11:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it roll. find your own happiness and dont whorry about them. been there (different issues). if you speak out and they dont listen, later they will blame on you for NOT being too loud about it and if you had been louder they would had listened and things would be allright now. do you know what i mean?
2006-11-26 11:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-26 19:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like a loser.
2006-11-26 12:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋