what do i do if my boyfriend says he loves me but then gets into fights with me??
2006-11-26 11:28:41 · 6 answers · asked by Chelsea J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of men say they love you but they don't really mean it. Remember love is not just what you say but what you do...Actions speak much louder than words
2006-11-26 11:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Teapot23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-11-26 11:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was the fight serious?? Sometimes things get said with out thinking the way it sounds when it comes out. I would just blow it off unless it was so serious that you can't look the other way. Now if it keeps happening like every day or every other day, you have to see that you have a problem and there is no way that the relationship can go on heathily. Every relationship is going to have its rough times, but if its not to bumpy just look ahead for the good times.
2006-11-26 11:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend.
2006-11-26 11:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang girl move on he dont love you jk i dont realy know 2 points
2006-11-26 11:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by kristi h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
couples in love always fight... jk.
2006-11-26 11:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Peta Chips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋